Back from the Past

  • I was here an incredibly long time ago - I don't even remember it and was surpised I had an account when I tried to register.

    Anyway.... I desperately need help. I am morbidly obese and I can't take it anymore! I'm going to need a lot of help and support, and I won't be shy about giving it out either.

    A bit about me.... I'm a 32 yr old divorced Mom from New Jersey.

    Looking forward to getting to know people!
  • Hi MelPerimeter!

    Welcome back!

    When I first began my journey I tried to think of things that I was doing that were making me FAT. I listed them in my journal and tried to work on a couple every week. At first I picked exercise and changing to drink water instead of soda. I decided that walking would be best for me.

    Next I decided to eliminate fast foods and other fatty foods from my diet. I became a real label reader for the first time in my life and was SHOCKED at the amount of fat that I had been eating regularly!

    Just these four things really got the ball rolling for me and helped me to drop 25 lbs. fairly quickly. By then I needed smaller clothes because everything was looking baggy. Soon after I got some new clothes (I was LONG OVERDUE on that!), people began to notice my weight loss. That was really great!

    I then found out about triggers. I never had heard of them before. I identified my own personal triggers -foods that I abuse- as cheese, chocolate, chips, bread, and pasta. I eliminated them from my diet because I can't be trusted to eat a normal amount of them. At the same time I increased the amount of vegetables I was eating. I dropped another twenty-five pounds.

    Next I upped my fiber and added more exercise. That took off more weight.

    By doing a couple things for a week then adding a couple new good habits the next week, I found that I slowly was learning how to take care of my body the way I SHOULD HAVE been caring for it all along.

    I had a long plateau there last year. I neede to change things to get my weight loss going again.

    Over the weeks I have added things like additional exercise, tracking foods eaten on Fitday www.Fitday.com which is FREE, and lowering my calorie allottment for each day. I WAS eating probably 3,000 calories before! I now eat between 1200 and 1500 calories a day. I am watching the serving sizes and portions that I eat because I know that I always ate WAAAY more than I should have eaten in the past.

    I weigh myself every day so that I won't ever let 100 pounds of fat sneak up on me like I did before!

    Hope this helps!

    Cheryl
  • Hey MelPerimeter,

    If you haven't read the Mountain story yet, go here:

    http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/showthread.php?t=108401

    It says a lot about challenges.

    I wish you a lot of luck in finding a program you can stay with and meet your goal!!!

    Jay