I joined the forum last week - pumped and ready to get started exercising and eating better. So far I have done nothing. I need some help getting started. I'm not good at making plans.
Any suggestions?


It's that simple. Just plan to do it. Then tweek your plan as you go. Drink soda? Switch to water. Just one simple thing. Sit in front of the TV? Get up and do some squats or jumping jacks or just march in place while watching. One simple thing. Change something each week if you can't handle it all at once. But the only plan you need is to actually start. The rest will come. 
Change something you're eating, find a lower-calorie, still enjoyable alternative. I mean, an example for me is: THEN: 1-2 slices lo-fat swiss cheese on regular white bread; NOW: 1 slice turkey, lettuce, lo-cal mayo on lo-cal white bread. THEN: 1/3-to-1/2 can of Pringles; NOW-100 calorie snack pack. I'm still eating things I like (bread, salty snacks), just lower portions or calories. And here's a kicker: I find that by still allowing myself to eat things I like, I have more discipline than I thought I would. By allowing myself a little of something rather than totally eliminating it, it satisfies the craving and I don't have to go back to the feedbag (this week I have a box of Cheese Nips in the house that I literally count out 20 pieces for 100 calories and put the box away). Granted, it's not an approach that works for everybody but I have lost 19 pounds in 2 1/2 months basically just moderating myself foodwise and doing mild-moderate exercise. Aside from feeling good about losing weight, I feel good in the knowledge that I still have room to kick things up a notch when I'm able--whether I reach my goal in 4 months, 8 months, 12 months is not as important to me as the fact that I am striving to reach it. The tortoise did win over the burnt-out, cocky hare, after all. 
