Hello, when I came to this site I just read, YOU on a diet by Dr. Oz and Roizen, great book, knowing how my body works has really helped.
Then I read this:
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/showthread.php?t=84601
great inspirational story, now I eat whole foods and keep track of my calories on fitday.com, its free.
Hopefully some of this will help.