Linda - that sounds like a lovely meal! It really sounds like you have things under control too

you could have easily made yourself a bowl of trifle and CHOSE not to - you should be VERY proud of yourself

Long shot thought of the day - would it be worth it to hire an organizer to come in and catalog / help you sell the clothes? I won't even pretend to know how much something like that would cost, but if reasonable...?
Also, if these items are tagged / brand names, etc. and you are willing to take less for them, but save yourself a lot of time, a consignment shop?
So the scale was up less than a pound this morning

I decided to stick with P3 breakfast, given that I truly don't feel like I went off the rails and had a 'splurge' meal...maybe a 1/2 splurge

Out of everything yesterday, the bite of the cake and the amount of hummus I ate were the worst 'offenses'...and the dried cranberries.
Also, I was on my feet almost continuously from 7am - 7pm - but I left my phone in the bedroom so I didn't have to worry about distractions, spills, kids, etc...
Next year will be such a treat! We are going to my cousins in Indianapolis and won't have to deal with my in-laws
Yesterday was a day to give thanks for blessings - and this year has been a blessing to me, especially for my health, and my girls

...but I am going to the dark side for a minute because while I've always enjoyed doing for others, something about yesterday felt completely different and awkward. I just don't understand my in-laws and my tolerance level for their cr@p has become minimal. I've been fooling with their b-s for 22 years...and yesterday was no different. It is just SAD because I didn't do anything...but I kept asking DH last night if he thought something happened / went wrong - and in my heart, I know it was awkward. Idk - obviously 22 years of history can't be condensed on a blog...so long story a little shorter, yesterday was the first time in probably close to 10 years the siblings came together for a holiday meal. There are many reasons for this including, but not limited to child abuse (some have been charged), spousal abuse (not formally charged), animal cruelty (cats / dogs have been removed from homes), drugs...and some of you may wonder why we would want to have these folks around period, but I DO love my niece's and nephews. DD10 doesn't have the relationship with her cousins her sister does because we do isolate ourselves from the ridiculous drama most of the time.
...and I won't lie, drinking made dealing with / forgetting the issues SO much easier.
This was my first
sober Thanksgiving in 10 years - since I was pregnant with DD10!
Anyway, sorry for unloading all this. I wish I was still in bed, but I am at work - looking forward to enjoying this unseasonably warm weather with a nice walk at lunch. The hammy is still a little sore but it will probably get more rest today here than it did yesterday while I was cooking and cleaning all day.
Happy 'black Friday' to all
