Thanks for the feedback, makes me feel a bit more grounded. I have to admit that I checked out another one of the threads and got a bit discouraged about people going on and off IP cause they went back to their old habits and gained back the weight.
I've been a yo-you dieter my whole life (usually only 10-15 pounds, but still stupid), and I don't want that to continue anymore. I don't want to be constantly trying to lose 10 or 15 pounds - on IP/off IP. I don't mind the one day a week, but I don't want it to turn into a yo-yo dieting syndrome.
On my home scale which is the one I'm going to have to live by now, I am 107 pounds. 110 is my high end. When I hit the 110 mark, it's time to do something. I don't mind doing a couple of IP days, but I just don't want to be on and off IP for the rest of my life.
I also plan to meet up with my Coach on a monthly basis for a check in and to buy food for the once/week IP days. Hopefully that will also help.
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Originally Posted by Ishbel
slow2lose I think your confidence will come with time. Just like weight loss, maintenance is a process not an event. I too have problems with confidence and I try to reframe it when my "OH MY GOD I'M GONNA GAIN IT ALL BACK". I find the more I just say "it's ok chickie, you got this, you know it won't come back over night" the more confidence I get. The more I say it out loud (even if I don't feel it sometimes) the better it gets. You can do this, you just need to believe in yourself. I too have cravings. For example, watching someone eat fries...mmmm...I think "ok, so you can have fries with gravy AND ketchup but you have to wait till fun day and don't forget how gross you'll feel phyiscally if you eat it now". Guaranteed by fun day I'll have found something better to eat than fries and the craving has past. I'm a firm believer in what you tell the universe is what will happen. So if you keep it positive then positive things will happen. Don't think I don't whine to the VIP or have a massive "OMG" when I step on the scale once in a while...my anxiety flares but it does relax when I remember "ok, so you won't gain it all back over night, maintenance is a skill that you have to practice over and over and over".
ie, I loved maile's quote the other day and it's stuck with me "The scale simply tells you what you need to do. This avoids the emotional reaction to the scale, and simply focuses on the action."
I agree with locopollo - figure out where you struggle and plan something for that timing.
Just my thoughts!
Liz Half a marathon in less then 2 hours - SUPER RUNNER!!! You need a super runner cape!
greeniris I wouldn't say you 'ruined' it. I think you'll be ok