pxlkitty- Loved your story about the stranger calling you pretty... cause you are!- but it can be so much easier to believe when the source doesn't even know you

You seem to have found a maintenance style that is working well for you. Because you have been maintaining within a five pound range for how many months now? Six? Seven? Awesome. Glad you had a Happy Easter!
candy there was a quote posted on here by
pauley a little while ago and it went like this
Being overweight is HARD
Losing weight is HARD
Maintaining weight is HARD
Choose YOUR hard
Maintenance is by no means a utopian paradise where you can eat mindlessly enjoying all of your favorite treats and wake up every morning to your svelte body that effortlessly slips into size zero jeans without an ounce of fat on it.
Nope, that's not maintenance.
Maintenance is having the dedication to fight through losing weight and the commitment to keeping it off even if your goal weight doesn't bring you the 'perfect' body. It is mentally exhausting sometimes but you can and will feel refreshed when you just stick it out. But be prepared. You have to want it badly enough that you're willing to fight for it.
IP is an 'ideal program' in the fact that it is so strongly promoted that you not cheat. Not even once. If you can do this in your weight loss phase, you will have trust in yourself by the time maintenance rolls around. And when your self efficacy is higher it is easier to maintain the weight.
Maile- I am rebooting. It was time to reset my eating patterns as I was getting too lax. Day six of Phase 1. Little bit like a Tale of Two Cities... "It was the best of times, it was the worst of times"... Love feeling in control of my eating and being leaner but I have less energy and am much more prone to being 'hangry'.
Such a great reminder though. It is easy to forget how much focus is needed to stay on Phase 1 for an extended period when it's usually just a one day hop. I haven't cheated even with diet soda. No gum either (definitely miss this). Which are both things that I'll typically allow myself to have on my weekly Phase 1 day. Just trying to keep it as close to my original journey as I can.
Funnily enough, because I only weighed in once a week when I went to visit my coach I've adopted the same principal. Thursday I may WI as that will be one week. But TOM is looming immediately after and I'd prefer to see a 'real' number and not a ton of water weight. So may WI next week instead. We'll see. For now I'm just enjoying being in a better head space.
After that week of birthdays and parties it felt a little like it does to be driving down a dirt road and have the back end of your car swing out and start dragging you toward the ditch. This week of Phase 1 is the relief of coming out of the tailspin and being solidly on the road again. I'm honestly looking forward to Phase 3. I really believe this is where the 'normal' eating patterns are reset.
I'm pretty set on eating clean when Phase 3 is done. I really believe I need to get rid of sugar/ sugar alcohols if I hope to achieve long term success in maintenance. Just finished Jackie Warner's "This is Why You're Fat" she suggests eating clean 5 days / week 1500 cals/day. Weekends have 2 cheat meals that do not add up to more than 1500 cals each eat clean the rest of the time. Will give it a whirl when the pancreas has been reset as it seems very sensible and is very appealing to me.
NewEnglander- I love PB with banana! One of my fave sandwiches in childhood and still love them now. No way to have a whole banana now- that's what I loved about Hawaii- they have the little bananas! When is Mardi Gras?
2ride- great to see another post from you- very sound advice for Candy! I've been posting at the same time as you so wrote my advice before I read yours... yours is very sound and Candy I hope you heed it!
And
Determined positively warms my heart to know you're still lurking- how about you
woolberger are you out there too?