@Kara like I said before I do have strong opinions on this subject and you're right I did express them in my original post. This one subject has always boggled my mind why can't women have control of their own bodies?

not everyone wants the same things in life as you and not everyones bodies are like yours, just because you haven't been knocked up yet doesn't mean it won't happen. its like you want everyone to be you, like you think of yourself as this perfect being. gah.

You can get pregnant at any point during sex. You've lowered your chances by using condoms, but it's not foolproof.

Some people are just unlucky, even if they take all the precautions they still wind up with a baby. Don't be so quick to judge them.

wow. just wow. i just felt my blood pressure shoot up.

yeah I did say that charlaine09 she had originally planned to go back but now she got pregnant hopefully she does find the time to go back but why make it harder on yourself by having a kid? Well hopefully she goes back or finds a job thats good(I know not everyone likes their jobs) or maybe can be a stay at home mom. I really do hope things go well for her.

This is a really sensitive topic. It's impossible to know all the details from outside.

Everyone has had a chance to share their thoughts and it is time to close this thread before feelings are hurt.