I have pretty fuzzy blond hair on my face that is definitely noticeable if you're close (and a couple darker ones in moles I got from sunburns, blech!). As I have gotten older/heavier, it's gotten heavier. I'm guessing hormone-related fun
But after trying shaving, which felt really odd and only lasted a short time, I got this inexpensive little battery-operated "Epilady"-like groomer that rips it out at the root like wax. It can hurt, depending on where you're using it, but it helps if you pull the skin tight as you move over it. It also helps if you just got out of a long hot shower - the hair comes out easier. Plus it lasts about 2 weeks before I notice it coming back.
I will look it up when I get home and post its name
p.s. Don't be embarrassed, you are definitely not alone, heh!