Rant: OK, I need to rant for a minute. Why is that people feel it is acceptable to comment on the food that I eat? If I hadn't lost weight, no one dream of publicly criticizing my food choices, why is this suddenly socially acceptable because I've lost weight. I had a business luncheon today and it was somebody's birthday, so they brought in birthday cake. Now I've been POP for at least a month now and the lunch wasn't too bad. I had bland chicken (not even any sauce on it that I could tell), vegetables (a lot of butter, but still, it couldn't have been that bad), and a green salad with a tiny amount of dressing. I skipped the mashed potatoes and white rice entirely (who needs both potatoes and rice in the same meal?). So when they brought out the cake and cut it into small pieces (really half-sized pieces), I figured I could have a piece. I'm not trying to lose any more weight anyway and one small piece of cake isn't really going to matter for maintenance. As I'm taking my piece, someone (a man, even--for some reason it's always men that makes these comments to me) says something about how he is surprised I'm allowed to eat cake. Honestly!

And what is really driving me nuts

is that now I can think of 100 things (okay, well, five things) to say in response but I was so taken aback at the time that I just demurely said something about how an occasional treat is okay. And then after making that comment, he went on to help himself to his second piece of cake!
Just to get it out of my system, here are the things I wish I'd said in response:
- I lost 35 lbs, or close to 25% of my total weight. Do you really think I'm going to gain it all back with this one piece of cake?
- How about you let me take responsibility for what I eat and you can worry about what you eat?
- Why on earth do you think it is acceptable to comment on the food I'm eating?
- Later this afternoon, I'm going to do 20 min of HIIT followed by one hour of circuit training. What are you doing to work off your TWO pieces of cake?
- I write down everything I eat and add up all my calories every day. Pick a date, any date, in the last three years, I can tell you exactly what I ate. Tell me, what did you eat on March 15, 2007? What, you don't know? Hmmm, I think maybe I'm a little better at this than you are. I'm pretty sure I can make appropriate food choices without your help.
I am not taking these comments anymore. The next person that makes this sort of comment to me is really going to hear it!
Rant Number 2: We had a lovely warm day today, highs in the mid 90s. It was so nice to be warm. The only glitch was that my gym had some sort of malfunction with their thermostat. Not only did the air not run for several hours but I guess the heater was actually running. They had just gotten it fixed when I got there, so it hadn't cooled off yet (but at least it wasn't getting warmer). I do a circuit training class on Thursdays and it was an absolute

sauna in the group ex room. OMG, like 20 degrees hotter than the rest of the gym. My trainer, who was teaching the class, was sweating and he was in a tank top and not even doing anything. And even worse, one of the exercises he had us do a combination of bear crawls across the floor and push-ups. At one point during this, I accidentally put my hand down in someone else's big puddle of sweat. Can you spell DISGUSTING!

Ugh. Even thinking about it now makes me want to go wash my hands again.
OK, I'm done now. Thanks for letting me rant. I feel better.
