Hi all. This is my first post on the weekly chat. I think I read everything. But what caught my attention, of course, was the talk about AF. I am 41 and in pre-menopause. So, I get occasional hot flashes or everyone else is cold and I am fine. But this month AF showed up a week early and I have been flowing for the past 12 days now. The Kaiser advice nurse wants me to come in but OB/Gyn didn't have an appointment until next Tuesday. I guess they'll figure out what was wrong when they perform my autopsy.
I've been kinda watching Biggest Loser but not every week. They are kinda whiney.
And I am definitely watching the AI auditions. Even though they are such a set up, they are still funny. Is it new this year that they are doing those life stories even for the people that couldn't sing to save their own life?
I have loved turnips since I was a little kid. My grandma used to make turnip greens, too. I should try introducing my kids to turnips.
CT - I really feel your pain. I have been there myself. I think you need to get a journal and write down how you are feeling. What is it that you really want? If it is marriage, are you will to wait for BF to want the same thing? How long are you willing to wait? You need to be happy with your life. If it is not going the way you want, you have to change you, change your life, change something. This was the one thing I finally accepted as truth in my thirties; the only person that I can change is me and life is way too short to sit around waiting for someone else to start thinking like I do. I had to go out an find people that thought the way I thought and wanted the same things I wanted. Good Luck.
Have a great night/day everyone.

Didja lose all that weight on LC?
Got to babbling earlier and forgot to say how inspiring you are to me!
I didn't get to the market this past weekend and it is a struggle to get there during the week. So I have been trying to make the best of what I have in the fridge/freezer. 
and
finger crossing for your W-I tomorrow. I had no idea
why I wasn't losing,checked my food journal [nothing wrong there],I was exercising everyday [nothing wrong there either],so I thought It must have to be the W-I day and sure enough it was. Yes,I'm sure that she will be healthier & happier now that the procedure is done.Thanks for the prayers & good thoughts for my friend Pat. I wonder what happened to BOUNCY[Shelley]also or DIVA they both aren't around either.

I'm only getting it out here so that I can get it out of my system. I am on day two of aunt flow and as such still desire something I should not eat. Everyone wants something ridiculous and they want it yesterday. Usually it is a stupid request (sorry but it is). Clients calling about landscaping acres and acres of open space because some dork of a real estate agent is screaming he can't sell a house with that open space sitting there like that. Kind of the point isn't it? Having open space...planned that way, natural? No lets change the nature of that and fight with a City and a County and introduce water and water meters where they don't belong, at enormous expense. By the way, no one can sell anything right now so just cool your jets and get over it. Don't blame the subprime market or the fact that both you and your wife decided to be in real estate and lived beyond your means and now have not sold anything for six months. Let's blame the beautiful rolling hillside that God put there for a reason and get rid of that too since we have pretty much raped everything around it to build this development. Then let's make up silly reasons why it needs to be changed, "Gasp...rodents burrow there and might come into my yard." "Horror, a coyote was sighted" "EEEkkk, a mountain lion ate my poodle (Ok...if you've read my previous posts that really happened). But noooooo. We must calculate the cost of throwing good money after bad to appease someone's effing whim. Jimminey. Just say no for criminey's sake. I know I get paid for it but lordy. I hate to see people throwing good money after bad especially when they have now intention of going forward on a capital improvement. Maddening I tell you!