FBG was 97 this am. During the night it was 74. In the past, I have eaten a piece of candy if it went below 90, but I didn't do that last night, so I don't know if it went any lower. But I think if I had eaten a piece of candy it would have been higher in the AM. I test often, and the only reason I check in the middle of the night is because I get up to use the restroom. If I can keep eating on plan I will not have to check as often. Right now I do it to see if I need more meds, or to see if I took too much med for the amount/type of food I ate. I can't really say I ate on plan, because I did have carbs, but my plan is reduced carb, not eliminate. I did have carbs, but I did not overeat, I did not have sugar, and I stopped eating after dinner and kept my fast. I consider that being on plan.
I had some pain during the night and took Tylenol. The pain was still there this AM but not as bad. So it might be a fluke about pain increasing if I eat sugar. I still want to stay away from it, and this is a good excuse to do it.
Trish, that's a shame that your Dad is telling people that you know he's there but he hasn't seen you. Maybe he is not aware of the days, and doesn't realize you have been there recently. It may seem like a longer time to him. I don't think it has anything to do with how often you are there, but the way he perceives it. I think the staff there sees you and knows that you take turns coming and that someone is there a few times a week. Please don't let that make you feel guilty. You are good daughters. You all spend time with him, and nieces and nephews too. Do you think he is accidentally turning his phone off, or that he does it on purpose?
I think the fasting periods between meals is really helping you. That way, blood sugar has had a chance to recover before you eat again. I think that's important. I know many times I did not do that or didn't pay attention. If your blood sugar is a little high and you eat the next meal, it's going to go even higher not matter if the meal was a good choice or not. It really makes sense to start out low before each meal. I'll bet a lot of diabetics don't even think of that. I know I didn't for a very long time, but I will pay more attention to it now. My breakfast is low carb 99% of the time because I eat the same thing. My preference is to skip lunch, but sometimes I eat some of whatever DH is eating. And I don't always test before dinner. I will work toward that goal. It should make a big difference for me.
DH told me he wants to eat quick/easy meals now, not for me to cook a meal each night like I used to. I have stopped buying meat other than the chicken legs I like and ground meat. He likes burgers. I used to keep steaks on hand as a quick meal for him but he doesn't even want them anymore. Occasionally I will make chili, stuffed peppers, or a roast...things that I miss from my home cooking. He is OK with that once in a while.
Today we are going to have hamburgers and hot dogs for the traditional Memorial Day meal. I will probably make a little bit of potato salad for him. I will try to eat light and keep this momentum going..

