Kayley -- I'm actually in the far suburbs of Chicago and so not really near the city. We actually don't get in very often.

XENA-- I understand exactly how you feel about not feeling like you can do this. That is one of the feelings that held me back for a long time. I guess rather than giving you an "attagirl" platitude, I'd ask you to say more. Why do you feel you can't do this? What parts are you having trouble with? Sometimes analyzing the situation helps me.

I can't give you the "click" or the motivation, but I can tell you that I felt exactly that way before, and now I feel I CAN do it. That attitude CAN change!