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Originally Posted by kimo88
Wooooooaaaah! She said she would kick you off the program if you gained?! What the ****!! That's ridiculous!! Don't worry about the up 4lbs. It's probably all water weight. Seriously, it will be gone in NO time! You're human, you aren't perfect. Life happened and you're back on track now. It's what you do after a blip in your journey that defines your success, not the little blips on the way. Congratulations for getting back on track so quickly!!
Seriously though, your coach sounds like a jerk. I would have skipped my weigh in too if my coach said that to me. Do you have any other clinics in your area you could go to? I don't think it's great to be ruled by fear in your journey. I'm actually mad about this!!
She's actually a sweet girl. She grew up with my daughter. I think she just said that to scare me? not really sure though? She said that it's a waste of her time and my time if I'm not losing weight weekly. She's a sweet girl. Not really a "coach" though....
I have really been stressed out though, personal life, family life, work... and given all that I am going through, I feel that I am doing pretty good. My losses have slowed down, but considering everything, I was happy to at least be maintaining.
I guess that I will be up front with her when I go next week, come clean about what happened this week and ask her if she wants me to leave the program. I can do it with alts at this point. I just like to go weekly for the accountability. What I need is encouragement, not shaming.
But that's what I have 3fc for! I love the encouragement and support that I get here!! You all rock!