I calorie count but it doesn't guide my choices exactly. For example, I won't choose a snack based on which has less calories. I pick based on which I fancy to eat.
My weight gain is due to overeating and lack of exercise. I was raised with fruits and veggies, no junk food, no eating out, no sodas/juices (dear lord if I ever hear another doctor tell me I should think about cutting soda, lol). But the portion size was out of control. Too much of everything. Calories counting works for me because it make me look at the package to check serving size, how much is recommended, and that prevents me from overeating.
I'm not fixated on a deficit, but now that I'm vegetarian I rarely find myself wanting more calories than I aim for (1200-1500).

