Gosh, I wish I could give everyone here a big (gentle!) hug.
I can certainly relate to a lot of you, as I have a few issues of my own. It's all been a lifelong struggle, and it makes losing weight so difficult. Interestingly, once I hit my 30's (I'm almost 32), the weight loss became even harder - makes me mad at myself for waiting this long to do something about it.
I have had Crohn's disease since I was 11, and got an ileostomy at age 15 because of it. I battle the disease daily, and I really have to watch what I eat because I have to take extra special care now that I only have small intestines left! And, as with most autoimmune diseases, they tend to come in multiples, especially when you start at such a young age! So, I also have RA (focused mainly in my feet, hands, hips, back, and knees. My knees also have degenerative cartilage and tissue loss - I was told total knee replacement is in my future, probably in my 40's. So, I neeeeed to lose weight!
I also have hypothyroidism, fibroids, and clinical depression - bleh.
But, I know my weight loss will help a ton to alleviate some symptoms with several (if not all) of my issues, and I get mad at myself and beat myself up on a regular basis for letting myself get this big.
I have incorporated more exercising into my days for the last two weeks, and I feel pretty good from it, except for my knees. But, I am pushing through - I figure if I'm going to have to have my knees surgically corrected someday, I may as well push myself through the pain now and worry about fixing it later!!!
Good luck to all of you - I truly hope everyone gets some relief very soon!
