my friend/classsmate at school always tells me that i am the most beautiful woman in the world. Everytime he sees me eating some very low cal snack, he tells me that I don't need that. When I post on my facebook that I am headed to the gym, he tells me I don't need the gym. He says I am perfect the way I am.

Ok, I have four major positives that I have collected for recall at needed times.

* DH says oh my goodness, you are getting SO small I can wrap my arms around you almost 1 1/2 times. DS says mommy you look so skinny!

* Neighbor and her sister say (they gave 5'7 perfect runner's bodies) "You are my inspiration, you are looking so good."

* Friend at university asked my were did I get my little wrist from . . . and why is it that I am so much stronger than she. Ummm, because when you are eating hohos and crusin' the internet all night long, I am bustin' my butt and counting calories.

* BIL and SIL visited last week and I haven't seen them in 1.5 years. And SIL saw me walk into room first time and said, "Hey skinny mini . . . you are making me look BAD (she gained 30lbs). Then she reported (after they returned home for a week) that BIL said that I was looking great and that he remembers that I was HOT when hubby and I got together. He continued to say that he can see my old hot mamma shape comming back. She said he was embarrassed (or frightened that she might pounce on him ) to say it to her , but she understood.