It has been a beautiful day here which has been sunny though enough breeze to make it pleasant. I took full advantage of the nice weather and did some laundry and no surprise it dried wonderfully. Nothing like the smell of laundry that has been dried outside. Later I tackled the ironing which by the end of it I was very hot and uncomfortable. So I stepped outside once I had finished to cool off and I felt heaps better then.
Had a brief visit to DH sister this morning then met a friend for lunch. It was a very nice time catching up on things. The time passed so swiftly which it always does when your having fun.
It is kind of late for me today to be dropping by but has been a full day. What with meeting up with friends and family. Going to the computer fayre and house chores so this has been my only free time today. I sure will not take any rocking tonight to sleep

LIZABETH At the beginning of my weight loss journey I sure was not this positive (get and go) if it was not for people like Rosebud encouraging me along the way I think I would have given up and thrown in the towel long ago. Though as the time went on and the weight dropped off I had the new found confidence that I had never experienced before.
I have always been overweight since the age of 13 so became shy and introverted. I never wanted to stand out but melt into the background. Like many people whom have trouble with their weight I had been verbally bullied. Oh yes I tried to pretend it didn't matter but deep down it hurt.
Once the weight loss was noticeable I started getting positive comments on how good I looked. I had never had such compliments, yes my DH always told me I was beautiful but I never believed him as I was fat and to me it translated to ugly. These compliments started to come thick and fast. I then slowly started to believe that maybe I could crack this and lose the weight.
So I did not always have that get and go. It was given to me through encouragement until I eventually believed in myself. So I do try as much as possible to do the same to others on 3fc as I know it will eventually open those "magical doors" where you start believing that maybe you can do this.
I may have challenges to overcome but most people in life have some adversities to deal with. So I have not sat there thinking why me I know there could be far worse things to have. I am blessed in so many ways I have a wonderful DH whom helped me deal with this and I have beautiful family who help me in so many ways. Many people do not have that so I count myself so bless.
I have seemed to be rattling on, you will get to know that I will type 100 words when 10 would have said it 
Hey you maybe 75 but I think you must have a young at heart attitude to want to lose some weight. I know several people whom put me to shame one lady in particular she is 95 she swims every day 75 laps of the pool ! Well if that was not enough she plays bowls, she drives and walks without any aid. Though last year she took a tumble and broke her hip. Though she did as she was told plus she was determined to get back walking as before. I think this positive mental attitude helped her make a full recovery. I think she is a remarkable lady and you would never put her at 95.
I think half the battle is choosing a "diet" and I use this word loosely and prefer the term healthy eating something that you can stick to for life. Otherwise the minute you stop the weight will creep on. I spent a long time looking at what I could stick with. I have a low fat diet with plenty of fruit, vegetables, whole grain and more fluid. Along the way I have made tweaks to my eating plan as I did not quite get it right in the beginning. I am now on a plan that I can stick with for life so that is why I am maintaining. I like you have diabetes in the family (my father and his father)
ROSEBUD Well done again on doing another walk. Like you I tailor it to my needs so if I am a bit sore/tired I do a shorter walk. On the days I am feeling OK then I pull in my longer walks with the breaks of course for my legs to recover somewhat

DH PC is up and running though it was not plan sailing by any means. Firstly could not get windows xp installed though that was because he had not set up the bios quite right. It took him some while to figure his mistake all this time he was starting to get impatient
So I had to try and brain storm to help him see the wood for the trees. Then he could not get on the INTERNET despite installing the disc. He even phoned technical support but as he was connected to the support he had decided while he was waiting to reboot the modem. Guess what it brought the INTERNET straight up so he felt a little embarrassed to say the least 
Thanks Rosebud I think the reason I am maintaining is the fact I choose a healthy eating programme I could stick with for life so that was half the battle. Plus not thinking that I am on a diet this was a eating plan for life. Oh I am not saying that I am any angel I still have naughties along the way but in moderation rather than before it was every day. Not only that it was many of the naughties in one day. I shudder to think of all the rubbish I was putting into my mouth and yet expecting my body to function. I am hoping that when the dust settles so to speak I will start to lose a wee bit more but if that does not happen I am happy with that. I am so pleased about the weight loss and now I can shop where I want. I have so much more choice and I did not know what that was like
Time for me to start thinking of having my hot chocolate and making tracks to my bed. Thanks ladies for listen to me I have put in an essay tonight
So take care everyone and catch up with you soon
purpleorc 

and it is ending with more
, but I said there is always my Tim Horton's coffee, so I made a pot and discovered that I was low on that too. So we stopped to pick some of that up as well, only there was new girl on and she gave DH the wrong kind -- one that can only be used in percolators and not filtered coffee makers, so DH had to go all the way back; but the manager gave him a big can at a tiny discount for his troubles. 

Hope that is all gone.
to 3fc and especially to this thread it is nice to have you on board.
on losing 40lbs that is a wonderful achievement and one to be proud of. At the minute my own weight loss seems to be in the the stage of maintaining. Though I think that maybe due to the fact my body went through huge changes with the amount of weight I lost in about 18 months. It maybe settling down before it is prepared to let me lose any more. So whilst I am at this point I see it as maintenance which I am doing successfully at the moment. It is a good motivator that like you I recall how immobile I was becoming, not to mention the lack of choice in clothes and stares in the street due to the way I looked. There is no way I want to go back to the old me of 300lbs.
skies ever since. Lots of folks out walking off their dinners with this nice weather this evening. We had a meatless dinner tonight; had a Mushroom & Zucchini Casserole that was in the freezer -- just popped it in the oven and came in here to read while it baked.
So sorry about that I have focused on my ailments. I hope that all of you ladies are enjoying the summer.
The heat isn't miserable enough without pain and itching! Yes, stress can do a number on us! If the soreness in mouth continues, call doctor of course.
We are planning on going picking but we have farms with high bushes (simple to pick) and fast to pick but they do charge so much a lb. for them. It's fun anyway and I have a store of them for winter for pancakes, jam and pies if I get off my butt and get moving. Hubby has been working in basement (putting up insulation, painting and replacing some foundation) and he likes to work in morning. How did you ever pick in that heat?

He did not vomit much so do not know what that was about. So I am keeping an eye on him. He is now is curled up fast asleep besides me.