Ok, I'm usually pretty long-winded and I'm sorry about that, but I have to share my story.
I'm nearly 52. I feel like I've been trying to figure out how to lose weight since I was 27 and my thyroid went on the fritz. I've done WW, calorie counting, Jenny Craig... I've had limited success with all of them, some of them even helping me to keep weight off for a couple of years. But always, in the end, my cravings would win out. I was ALWAYS hungry.
I was fairly slim when I married the love of my life in early 2002. But my husband loved to eat, and he loved to eat things that packed the pounds on me. I gained, oh, 90 or so pounds during our marriage. They were also the worst things for him. In late 2007, he suffered an unexpected fatal heart attack while he was out of town on business. My world got knocked out from underneath me in an instant and I turned to food as comfort. I love my glass of wine each night after the work day is done, too.
The last 15 months were pretty rough, but with respect to my weight, I stuck between 250-260 lbs. I was left with a large property and a lot of animals... between shoveling poo, keeping a large vegetable garden, stacking wood, mowing lawns, digging weeds, bucking hay bales, doing housework, etc., I seem to fit in a bit of exercise.
Anyway... fast forward to the beginning of 2009. The haze is clearing, and what is reflected in the mirror is rather horrifying. Time to give it another try.
I'd noticed over the past year that when I turned to food for comfort, I always grabbed up the simple carbs: The white bread, the cake, the cookie, the soothing mashed potatoes and gravy, the pasta. There had to be something to this carb addiction stuff. I started looking around on 3FC for a diet that would severely limit the bad stuff. I found South Beach.
Now, I need to tell you, I didn't expect it to work. I hadn't read the book; I really didn't understand the principles. I figured this would just be another half-hearted stab at weight loss that I'd conveniently give up within a couple of weeks. But I wanted to find out about this connection between simple carbs and cravings, and heck, Phase I was only for 2 weeks.
Within 2 days, I was down with the South Beach Flu: A little headache, a general feeling of malaise. But by Day 5, the cravings were gone. Disappeared. Finit-o. It's as if someone handed me a golden key to a door I'd never seen before. And gone they stay. I can do this forever!!!!
I finally read the book at the end of the first week, and like someone else here calls it, SB is the "Duh Diet." (I'm sorry I can't recall who said this; had I remembered, I would have given credit!) It makes total sense to me, and it's working great. It's not low carb, but it's complex-healthy carb. After the first 2 weeks, you start adding in things, going at your own pace, and find the balance that works for you.
I work from home, and there is no real structure to my day. The Snack Room is only steps away. All my life, I was practically thinking about the next thing I could eat as I was swallowing the last thing I ate. That compulsion is gone. GONE. I have my breakfast, start work and often work for 6-7 hours before I realize I'd better go have a snack. And the whole day is like this. Food no longer controls me. That is such a new feeling, I can't even convey my sense of wonder over it!
I'm in my second week of Phase II, have lost 15 pounds and I know... KNOW I am going to succeed this time.
Good luck in finding what works best for you! I encourage you to give South Beach a hard look.
Rae