I have the opposite problem... I wear a size small t-shirt now, but my pants are still 10/12. All my weight goes straight to my theighs and butt! blah.
Short term, try wearing things that flatter your body - A line skirts, empire waist dresses, wide legged pants.
Long term- try exercises that will target the areas you want to change. If you have a tendency to loose weight faster on your bottom half and just do plain cardio, you won't see a huge change in overall shape. Things like weight lifting (no, it wont make your arms huge) and ab workouts might give you results you like.
That said, you look AWESOME. The first thing I thought when I saw your pictures was "wow, that is one hot busty blonde chick!" - no notice of being apple shaped or anything like that. You've made incredible progress, and look FANTASTIC!

And I'd rather be a pear anyday! My best friend is a pear, I love her shape! Probably because she has a huge butt though...and I don't have much of one.
But I guess the good thing about me being an apple is that I'm currently a 14-16 in jeans, even though I'm still over 200 pounds (the height helps too, I'm sure).