Hello to all and thank you for your kind words and prayers, it has been quite a chaotic time in our household, but I believe God does not give us any more than we are able to handle. Even if it doesn't seem that way at the time!
Sadly I don't have a lot of time to read all the posts & reply, especially during excessively busy times.....10 hour work days, do take a toll. Rosebud as I mentioned in another post, you know I faithfully read yours since I want to keep abreast on what you and DH are up to! We were terribly busy with the funeral, preparing artwork for a Christmas mural at work, setting up/troubleshooting a couple friends MP3 players and loading 'em up with music files from my database and volunteer work for our Christmas families also at work. We go out this Monday to do all the shopping. DH is going with me to help with the lifting and once I've got him there, I'm going to corral him into wrapping......he just doesn't know that yet!

A friend at work has asked if I would consider doing a photoshoot for her daughters wedding.....oh boy, I just don't know whether to commit or not. It's not until April and it's only a small wedding, but I just don't know if I'm confident enough. I have two awesome Panasonic Lumix cameras & a Sony HD video camera which would be sufficient to do the shoot but I so lack confidence. I'm still mulling it over.
I haven't even begun Christmas shopping for my own family yet....YIKES!

On Tuesday my daughter and I will hit the pavement and try to get some of it done. I'm just terrified that if I over do it, I'll be sick for Christmas, so we'll just have to pace it out.
Bargoo, sending up prayers for direction on accepting/declining the elder position. It is a very great honour that you were asked. God's will be done!
ronni62 sending up prayers to get you through this stressful time. You have a large load to carry. Find time for yourself, relax, take a breather. Sounds like you need it!!
ECmom, hi there and I don't think anyone would be upset that you weren't able to be personal. We know what life can be like at times. Take care and have a blessed Sunday also!
CountingDown awesome that all your shopping is done and your tree is up!!! Good for you. Hopefully next week I can say the same. Christmas is coming far too quickly. The Wii was a great idea and awesome that it has helped you to find common ground with him! It is great to find ways to connect, some are so hard to reach and it's very important to spend family time together.
EZMONEY, wow what a generous man he is to give all that furniture away and excellent that you will be selling some off and providing it to your chuch family assistance! I admire you for consistancy and dedication to your walks. I want to get back to walking, actually both my DH & I do. We both need the excercise and know we would feel so much better for it. Having dogs is helpful as it encourages one to go on walks. I have an elderly dog who doesn't quite see walking as fun anymore....she punks out on us after only a block or so. We had a geriatric household of pets and 2 passed away this year leaving us with just our Shelby. We don't expect she has many years left. Eventually we plan on getting a pup....a little closer to retirement though and I'm sure that will give us another reason to get out walking more often. Until then we'll just have to force ourselves to make the effort. We are looking after my brothers cat for a while, but cats aren't the walking type.
Rosebud, you may be very well right about the weather affecting/causing the charlie horses. Sudden changes in weather can play havoc on the body. Hope you leg is better, prayers sent up for healing for you! Glad to hear you have everything almost ready for Christmas....wanna come help me out?????? lol Can't wait until retirement (or semi-retirement). I just never seem to have time anymore and it's not that I don't try to make the time.....it's that people are so demanding of my time. In one way it's a compliment that they come to me, but on the other hand, there is only so much one human being is capable of. I have to work on a Christmas video to play on Christmas day when the family gathers. It will be sort of a memory video for our dear Nita, gosh I still can't wrapped my head around that fact that she is gone....I know the facts but it just doesn't seem real...such a young person. I have photos from various family events & video from last Christmas which was at her home (which it always was) so I'll incorporate some of that footage. I don't want to make it a sad video....don't want people sad & crying on Christmas day. I'll try to make it uplifting somehow.
I went last Monday for an MRI....that was interesting. Sheesh why don't they tell people in advance that this machine is very confining. I'm claustrophobic (reeeeeeeeeeeally claustrophobic) and couldn't go through with it. I tried, but it scared the beejeebees out of me....to the point of onset of a panic attack. I can't believe I was set up like that. Poke me, prod me, cause me all sorts of pain....I can totally handle that, but put me in a confined space and I lose it! Called the specialist that ordered this and they seemed very inconsiderate but did offer a sedative for the next appointment....fine, I'll try that, but if that doesn't work, I'm done with it. On one had, I feel really stupid and on the other hand I know my limits. DH is going to come in with me and maybe that will help too...who knows. I know I need the MRI because I want to ensure it was not a stroke I had in the summer, I just don't know if I can get past my phobia to do it even with meds. I'm a fighter so I won't give in without a valiant effort first though.
Well I better get off of here, gotta do those Christmas cards today. I double booked this evening, friends invited us over to play a new game but Bre called last night and said she was coming over this evening and without thinking I agreed. Just too much on my mind I guess.....oh well.
Hope you all have a terrific day and will touch base again soon! God Bless!
Numpster
