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Originally Posted by Megan1982
I do enjoy it an awful lot, but exercise is also a great filler for me between getting off work at 4:00 and dinner around 7:00. I would have to find some way to fill my time or else I would go home and eat dinner by 5:00, and probably keep eating... and eating...
This is so true! Sometimes, it's not about the exercise at all, it's about not eating. I try to make sure I stop eating at least one to one and a half hours before I work out. Then I work out for at least an hour. Then I sometimes stretch for 15 min and sit in the sauna for 15 min. If I take a yoga class, that's another hour. On the weekends I walk to the gym, so that's 30 min (15 min each way). All in all, it can be up to 5 hours of the day where I'M NOT EATING!

If I have to be off plan for lunch, I'll often plan to exercise after lunch because I know having that chunk of exercise in the afternoon can really help put a halt to any off-plan eating--the exercise forces me to stop eating and get things back under control.
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Originally Posted by Meg
I think you all have nailed the dilemma that fitness/weight loss professionals face ... do you tell people what the reality of weight loss and maintenance is, knowing that you might scare them off forever? Or do you fudge the facts to make diet and exercise a little more acceptable?
My vote would be to lie, lie, lie like a rug!

Seriously, if, back in Aug 2005, when I joined my gym, the folks at the gym had told me that I needed to exercise for 60-90 min a day for 5 days a week, I would never have gotten this far. I would have walked back out the door and assumed that being fit and healthy was not an alternative for me. I just didn't think there was any way I could exercise that much. I thought that maybe I could manage 30 min of exercise, two or three days a week.
And, back then, I didn't need to exercise like I do now. I didn't exercise at all, ever. My modest goal of 30 min, two to three times a week was a huge step in the right direction and perfectly sufficient for my originally very modest weight loss goals. I really truly believe that any exercise, no matter how little and how easy, is better than no exercise at all. Food pyramid be

. If all you can manage to do is walk on the treadmill, hunched over and holding the side rails for dear life, for 30 min a week, well, that's still got to be better than not doing any exercise at all.
I also don't believe that everyone is going to need to exercise 60 min a day, five days a week to maintain their weight loss. We have some pretty fit people on this forum with pretty ambitious goals in terms of weight maintenance. My level of exercise is commensurate with the ambitiousness of my goal weight and it's definitely not for everyone. I'm at the low end of my BMI--I could be quite reasonably healthy weighing quite possibly up to 20 lbs more and exercising quite a bit less. Not everyone has to be Dara Torres and not everyone has to pick a weight goal that requires 60-90 min of exercise, 5 days a week to maintain. It's about deciding on a goal that you feel good about but that also encompasses the lifestyle (both eating and exercise) that you can manage.
So I think I'd skip the conversation about what you need to do to maintain your goal weight altogether and just talk about what you should do now to start progress towards that goal weight. Let's face it, the goal weight is a ways, possibly years, off. Things are going to change in that time, including how you feel about exercising. When we get to your goal, then we can worry about what you need to do to maintain it.