Welcome back pxlkitty! If the worst you did while on a cruise is to have bread & fat with dinner two nights in a row- then you did pretty darn well! Congrats on sticking so close plan.
And woolberger I had forgotten to mention... I can't believe you only gained three pounds while you were away- that's awesome! Maybe it was just the feeling of not being totally informed about what you were eating that led to the feeling that things would be worse when you got home? Or that if we relax our guard all sorts of unwelcome things will happen? The conundrum of enjoying life vs. falling off the wagon...
jennydoodle I agree that in terms of lifelong maintenance it eventually has to get to the point where we eat smaller at one meal or for one day to balance out other meals/ days. And hopefully the decision making process becomes more innate but until then I have to calorie count- it's just what keeps me aware of the totals at the end of the day. And in my case, when I let loose and give up the accountability of tracking, well that's a path that leads somewhere I don't want to go... As I write this I'm thinking I'd better start tracking my treat day it would probably help matters in that area

I read an article that stated when we're losing weight it's better to have variety in our diet but that when we are maintaining it's better to have a small rotation of items that cycle through. Apparently natural instinct will have us seek out variety and this can lead to overeating vs. sticking with the same rotation leads to feeling satisfied on less...