Hi everyone! It's a fairly nice day here...it was kind of cloudy this am but the sun is now out and is supposed to be in the 70s. Still feels slightly cool though. Dh took our gs swimming this am, they came home for sandwiches for lunch and now are going fishing. I was going to go with them but felt like dh wanted it to be a guys time as he kept telling me negatives about the place...no place to put a chair, have to sit on a rock, you'll get bored etc.

It's ok, I recogize they need their guy time and I have plenty to do. I'm good with being alone. What a change in our gs now that he is 12! So obedient and much calmer, not so hyper. He is trying so hard to be helpful and fit in with our lifestyle which is way different than what he is used to. He didn't ask for me to read to him last night which I expected (afterall he's 12) but I kinda missed that special time together. Now he's all into watching movies on his little computer thingy and listening to music, but I realize they change and just feel blessed he still wants to visit grandma and Lolo.
Cajun/Isabelle/glynne - I've never been a roughn' it kind of camper. We've always had a RV of some kind or stayed in a cabin. Actually the cabin was the roughest in some ways as it wasn't very clean! It rains so much here that camping outside is not so pleasant except for a few weeks when we actually get summer maybe. Good to know the tip for ticks though, just in case. I remember our son coming home with a tick in his head after a camp-out with the boys in our church. Dh pulled it out with his very strong fingernails! Didn't seem to hurt our son and he managed to get it out. Cajun, good luck with the hypnosis. I've thought about doing that and have tried it here at home (with tapes), but I never stick to it long enough. It does put me to sleep sometimes though which is very restful. I think it's probably ok as long as it is a qualified person doing it for health reasons and not just entertainment. That sounds like a lot of calories, but maybe it's right for you right now. Let us know how it goes.
Marie - Loved the pictures...looks so cold! I know you get a lot of snow in the winter but thought by now it was past. We go to our condo near Bend now and then and we have slid down the mountain coming home a few times. I still remember the first time we were in Bend when we went to our timeshare presentation and ended up buying. There was a lot of snow..up to our knees in places. We stayed at a hotel in Bend (got couple free nights) and they paid for a meal in a restaurant too. We had a great time and have never regretted buying into our condos. Your dh is like my dh with the pancake breakfasts.....our gc always look forward to his pancakes.
Slmn11 - Oh, I didn't understand it that way but I hope that's right as in my case it would be better as dh does get more than me. Yeah, I can imagine about calling them as whenever I ask dh to call and ask a question about something to do with any of govt benefits he hates it as he's on hold forever.
The way the govt moves I wonder how long it would take to get the increased pay after your spouse died.
I've been doing pretty well with my housework schedule this week. Today so far I've done a little extra cleanig in our bedroom and the kitchen besides the daily stuff. I have a laundry load I need to go reboot. Should get a lot done while the guys are away.
You all have a good day/evening!