jemma, I feel you. I know I can tell that I've lost weight and how my clothes are fitting. I am down to where my 'normal' weight is now which is where I usually am when I decide I want to do something about it. Me being in the 190s on my first WI was a shock because I've never seen the numbers that high. So I think that the fact people aren't 'noticing' that I've lost weight so far is because I'm now around the weight that is 'normal' for me.
Congratulations on your loss!!! You are doing great!!! And super NSV for having someone notice!! I don't care what the age is or what context it comes in, it feels good to have someone else notice your hard work. Keep it up!!


