Vickie - glad you got some meds - UTIs are certainly not fun -so I hope they are working for you soon!
Sandra - Missoula sounds lovely - and of course I read about all the other places and was happy to see Gainesville, Florida there - which is where my brother lives - and I just had to laught cuz they talk about the number of runners there - of course he is a marathon runner as is my SIL - she just returned from some event in Texas!! (I think my brother got a double dose of the exercise gene and I gone none!

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Angela - I know the video sounds creepy but one would think that this was developed ESPECIALLY for children of that age group so would have to be carefully researched and tested prior to showing to kids? I would still ask to preview it if you feel uncomfortable - it probably sounds worse than it is!
Patti - have fun on your trip - enjoy the weather (I hope!). We are having unseasonably hot SUMMER weather here and it's pretty amazing. We all just want to go to the beach and relax. Tomorrow last day of these abnormal temps (27/high 80's) then back to rainy and 15/around 55 (the norm) by Friday.
Kathy - I can feel the pounds being added to me by the hour - gee wonder what I'm doing wrong?
Well eating too much and suffering I guess?? Dinner last night went well, altho I did have a piece of lemon meringue pie for dessert! The 2 glasses of wine did me in tho and I was falling asleep by 10 pm! Worst news is - remember that dishwasher that dh fixed? Well it's not really fixed at all! The thing works but there is something wrong with the water pressure or valve - not enuf water coming thru so dishes are dirty and soap still kinda "stuck" in the dispenser - not pretty.
So you can bet I was NOT happy having to wash all the dinner dishes/china and silverware, glasses! What a nightmare - makes you wonder how we ever lived without modern conveniences.
Today I was a bit off on my eating but I am feeling very stressed - I think mainly due to $$ situation - dh is very depressed about lack of funds and that money is pretty tight. He was off to the bank today to find out about lowering the mortgage payments - good news is seems we had opted to pay MORE than required (were we crazy?) - guess we were trying to pay off the house faster. About $150 more per week (we pay weekly) - so right away we can reduce monthly payment by $600 without any penalty to our mortgage. We are also thinking of breaking the mortgage cuz rates are lower now - it would cost around $2K to break it - so we need to figure out if this would be worth our while in the long run!
Also had quite a tiff with 19 yr old ds in the car today - i didn't know I could yell that loud and I am surprised the motorists in the cars around me did not call the police or something! We were just talking about this last night with our friends about how these teenagers think they can just help themselves to things around the house - that don't really belong to them.
So we were driving home from synagogue and ds asks about moving the record player (yes we still own one) to the basement for his use - and I say no - it remains in the family room - but you never use it - that's right, but we want to keep it in the family room - but the record show is coming (yes ds actually buys/collects old vinyl records) and I'm going to get more records - that's nice - so I'll get my own - go right ahead.
Now he starts talking about moving furniture - OUR FURNITURE in the basement to make room for stuff he wants to put in - no I say we don't want our furniture touched or moved - yes he says I am taking the bar apart on the old wall unit and taking off the door and putting my stuff in there - NO YOU'RE NOT, I screech - yes I am - NO YOU'RE NOT - DO NOT TOUCH OUR STUFF - THIS IS OUR HOUSE AND YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO TAKE APART OUR STUFF - then I'll call in movers and move it - NO YOU WON'T - THIS IS OUR STUFF - DO YOU UNDERSTAND ENGLISH! Okay I'm about to pop a vein now - swear to god - dd in the back has covered her ears and is bending down to avoid hearing this!
I cannot tell you how livid I was - or what came over me - but this complete disregard for other people's property obviously pushes MAJOR BUTTONS for me. I am now poking him - SCREAMING repeatedly - DON'T YOU DARE TOUCH MY STUFF! (like a spoiled child). He finally says where am I supposed to put my stuff and I answer - SHOVE IT UP YOUR AS* - can you believe I said that to my own child??? - I'm sure everyone in the surrounding cars heard it too!
Well I'm now shaking/trembling as I drive the rest of the way home - you can bet the car is pretty quiet now - I just couldn't wait to get home! Everyone kind of stomped off once we got there. I changed wolfed down some lunch and headed off to my hairdresser appt. Ds is now at work so was not here when I got home - but I am still livid and don't want to speak to him. He seems to think because his bedroom is in the basement that he "owns" the whole downstairs area - has plastered the walls with his band/music posters and treats the whole basement as his bachelor pad. I have a good mind to go down there and rip everything off the walls - but I know that is just me being childish. I don't know where he comes off deciding what to do with our things - and does not even ask??? What is up with that?
Have not told dh about this as we have barely seen each other today. I know he will be even worse than me when I tell him what ds was planning. We are now expecting ds's laptop (grad present) to arrive any day now and dh was already not wanting to connect him to the internet downstairs - needs to pull wires and stuff to his room - so I can only imagine this will put ds in his bad books and he will be in no rush to help him out - and this will make things much more difficult around here as they battle it out!
No wonder I had to get my roots done yet again (my hair is coming in white, not even gray!).....okay so I also got my highlights redone - nice and golden - I can pretend I've been somewhere relaxing on a beach - and not doing a fabulous impersonation of a screaming banshee!
Frouf
PS This might explain the pie and ice cream I felt I had to eat tonight - along with bread and butter - explains it - but still not a good excuse!