Well, I've got a patch stuck to my left shoulder, a piece of spearmint "Extra" gum in my chompers", and I am officially 3 hrs quit!
Of course, out of ALL the days in the year, today is the day that my boyfriend and I had to drop off his truck for inspection. So, I'm giving him a ride back home (while he's smoking away in the passenger seat argh!) and he says "Hey let's stop and get breakfast". Great idea honey. Yes, let's stop and get breakfast so that I can face both of my biggest nightmares--eating healthy AND not smoking--at the same time while you puff away across the booth from me in between bites of your cream chip beef. But, I'm really proud of myself. I said "Okay" and we stopped and I didn't smoke or even consider it (I'm determined this time) AND despite all temptation I stuck to my diet and ordered a fruit cup, 2 pieces of dry wheat toast, and an egg beater omlette with green peppers and mushrooms. Perfect breakfast! I'm so proud of myself. I know if I stick it out I can stay in control of my weight during this. I just can't use food as a reward.
Thank you all for the ongoing support

. I really respect those of you who have already had the strength to quit or have supported your loved ones in doing so
Lovtolaff--All I wanted to say that if you're thinking about quitting and worried about the weight gain, you might as well just go ahead and quit smoking now because the fear will never go away

I've been maintaining 150-155 for two years after taking two years to lose weight (so "dieting" 4 years now) and it's still a huge fear for me. It always has been. I used to think that I'd lose down to a certain weight and then it won't be as scarey to quit. In a way, after being in control of my weight for so long, I think it's scarier. I'm afraid I'll gain weight and people who complimented my loss will be thinking, "Wow, she's really packing on the pounds now". Just food for thought: If you really want to quit, quit now, while you're motivated for it. The fact that you're dieting and already monitoring your food and activity levels may actually help you resist packing on pounds
Kimmie--Best of luck to you in quitting! After 20 years I'm sure it will be very hard but you can always take comfort in knowing that there's someone else suffering right along with you--me! Thanks for mentioning the free patch from the doc thing... I'll have to call my practioner and see if I qualify for anything similar

Be strong!!!
Thanks everyone! I changed my signature today to officially reflect my new smoke free status!
Laters!