My hubby has known me since i was 18, now 33 and although i've never really been thin he always tells me he loves me for who i am and that he thinks i'm sexi, which is sweet, its just the way i feel myself that gets me down. Cry myself to sleep some nights because of the way i look and feel.

thats what i mean even though he says it doesnt bother him it bothers me big time

hey now i come to think of it ill be 33 in june

we have a lot in common then age, diet, drinking, music, kids driving us mad, lol, we make a good pair, oh and the dogs lol.

hey what about the goldfish hamster tropical fish and the blooming neighbours four sisters a set of in laws and two sets of parents {double marriages}

yep sounds about right, no i think u beat me on that one, i have three brothers but only one set of parents,
So can i ask how much weight you want to lose, i need to lose about 7 stone, I am going to Manchester on Sunday to go to a Lighter Life meeting I am so desperate to lose some weight I've tried everything else

well you and me both kid seven stone it is for me but i have to do it for health reasons i have oa and my spine is crumbling hips are knackered and the knees personaly i think the doc fancies me so he keeps telling me ive got all theses illnesses so he can see me

Yeah but is the doc good looking lol. Sorry to hear you have a lot of health problems you must find it a struggle trying to lose weight.. Do you manage to exercise I love it but can just never motivate myself to go and do it.

not really have to wait till body is in a forgiving mood and not behaving like its 90 i love swimming though and go whenever im able

swimming is my favourite exercise although i haven't been for ages had my hair coloured blonde on top and black underneath and its so expensive to have redone that i daren't go swimming in case it fades, that's probably the worst excuse for not exercising ever, lol.

i had my black hair streaked red and i mean fire engine red it cost me 65 quid and washed out after six washes even though it was supposed to be permanent so needless to say got my money back and im never doing that again

Sounds good reason (not excuse ) to me I can't afford to go to a gym/class that's my excuse/reason. I have no car though so occasionally use my legs! I really want to go swimming said that already but (I think) I do.

maybe we should get together veggie i could go with you to slimming world then we could go swimming a couple of times a week and you could keep me in line although you might need a big stick, .
Thats awful i would of wanted my money back after only six washes too, mine lasts longer than that thankfully cost it costs £70 but the black fades, quite quick.

i but ive got black hair anyway at least i think its still black ?been a while since i saw my natural colour at the moment its supposed to be cosmic purple but its a sort of burgandy colour

You'd have to drug me to get me into a swimming cossie at the mo But you are welcome to come to sw.