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Originally Posted by Radiojane
My boyfriend teases me about it and it pisses me off to no end.
Are you serious? Ugh. I feel so lucky. After desperately trying to hide it from my current bf for a long time (after years of being too afraid of relationships because of my excessive hairiness)e finally broached the subject. It was terribly sweet, however. I remember he had tried to touch my chin, and I turned my head (as usual). And he kept trying until he finally said something along the lines of: "I know you try to act so confident all of the time, but I know you feel painfully insecure. Please talk to me about it. I've known since I first met you, and it only bothers me that it bothers you so much that I feel like I can't have all of you." For real... that was almost exactly how he said it. Like XLMuffinTop said, I thought I would never recover from the embarrassment of it being out in the open. After the initial crying spell (and a few bad times he has comforted me through after the dam burst), it's been wonderful. I can be so open with him, to the point of the occasional joke at my own expense. I've always felt very strong feminist principles concerning my excess hair, but I used to crumble in the face of others noticing it. Since being with my bf, that doesn't happen as much anymore. I still am too chicken to ever "come out" about it like some women, however, principles or not.
Uh, sorry for the long-winded response. I just wanted to say how good loving openness feels. I encourage others to try it with their SOs.