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I've been married 9 years. Has it always been rosepetals and unicorns pooping rainbows? NO! I'll be honest and tell you there have been a couple times when I nearly walked away. But, I had an epiphany. The problems with my marriage were not all him. I was making myself angry and miserable trying to find all the fault in him. I expected him to somehow make my life wonderful, to fix me. End of the day, that's not his job; It's MINE!
You have to take control of your own happiness.
^^^Originally Posted by ValRock
I agree with ArcticMama.I've been married 9 years. Has it always been rosepetals and unicorns pooping rainbows? NO! I'll be honest and tell you there have been a couple times when I nearly walked away. But, I had an epiphany. The problems with my marriage were not all him. I was making myself angry and miserable trying to find all the fault in him. I expected him to somehow make my life wonderful, to fix me. End of the day, that's not his job; It's MINE!
You have to take control of your own happiness.
This and ArcticMama.