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Originally Posted by ChickieChicks
I have relatively big thighs for my height and weight. I have always been built like a sprinter, and even though my legs are big, they are meaty! It used to bother me, and I definitely do not rock the skinny jeans well, but screw it!
I found ways to embrace my super thighs! I can do the most amazing squats and maintain difficult moves in dance class much longer and much deeper than anyone else. No one is probably actually jealous, but I feel darn good about it every time I squat almost to the floor and keep it there while rocking out to Zumba moves with my arms! My super quads do allow me to accelerate very quickly when I do run, so even though I stink at distance, I can still outrun men and women who are technically more athletic than me for short distances.
So I cant wear certain styles on the bottom, so what? Weight loss is a huge mind makeover, especially how we view success and accepting our bodies...along the way and at goal!
I have super quads too! I love them, TBH. They're pretty much all muscle, with a little bit of annoying loose skin on top
I wear skinny jeans anyway. Screw it
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Originally Posted by Slush
The main reason it bugs me, is because of my legs. I don't want "big" legs. My mother says i'll always have big legs. The size 2 really was just a joke. I don't want my bones popping out and I want doctors off my back for my weight, so i wouldn't want them complaining that i'm underweight, lol.
My main goals are to look good in a swimsuit (whether that be a one piece or not), the ability to wear skirts and shorts that don't go to my knees, a little above, but not crotch riders, lmao. I just want to feel normal. Now, i only wear shorts that go to my knees. I NEVER wear skirts because my thighs rub together and it hurts. Those are my REAL goals, so don't worry, i'm not in la la land. It's just going to be very upsetting if i lose all the weight and my thighs still rub, so i can't wear skirts and the few things that i want to. Yes, i'll be healthier, but i won't be much happier. My goals aren't unrealistic in my opinion. I honestly just want to be normal and not feel like a fat girl.
It's tough really, because we can have these goals for ourselves and find that things turn out completely different when we get down to a weight we're comfortable at.
I got down to 107 unintentionally. While it's still within the healthy weight range for my height, it wasn't healthy for me at all. My thighs just stopped rubbing together
barely. Now as of yesterday I'm at 110 and my thighs rub together again. I'm just meant to have thighs that do I guess.
Things is, I couldn't wear skirts either. Now I can, even with thighs that rub together because they certainly don't rub together as much as they did before! I remember getting chaffed wearing skirts and how painful it was to walk around in a skirt or dress all day unless I wore leggings underneath.
There was a certain way I pictured myself as a thin person and I don't quite look like that due to my build and how I carry fat and build muscle. I'm still very happy not just with how I look, but with what I can do too that I'm not all that broken up about these differences.