I want to be a MILF. Shallow I know but I want to be the hottest mom at pick up. I don't want to be a dependapotomaus anymore. I want to not be self conscious around the 18-19 year old military wives at all of my husband's work functions.

Lambiechop..."Dependapotomaus"...That is HILARIOUS! I finally have a title for my life (soon to be ex-life)

-I want to be tiny compared to my man.
-I want to be considered a hot geek girl
-Make ex's jealous (We are all the same hahaha!)
-Not having to hear "Oh you have a pretty face..." -_-
-Though I have a boyfriend, sometimes just feeling other eyes on me would maybe make my boyfriend be a little more protecting.

-I want to be the same size (or smaller) then my hubby!
-I want to be able to walk in the same stores as him (Hollister, etc) and be able to WEAR those clothes instead of always having to shop at old navy!
-I want to go to the beach...in a TWO-PIECE!
-I just want to look plain ole HOT!! in High Heels!!

I'm another with a father who always had something negative to say about my weight. I'd like to actually get a compliment out of him about my appearance for once in my life.

I want all my husband's friends to be jealous that he has the hot wife.

I want to be able to shop with my best friend and actually try on clothes and buy something in the same store as her.

I want to go to a military function with my husband and have EVERYONE jealous that he has the hot wife. =)

If I make it to my 10 year reunion next year I want all the guys who never noticed me and all the girls who just thought they were perfect to have a draw drop moment when they see me.

And not that it's evil, but I want to feel small next to my husband! I've out weighed him for at least the last 5 years if not longer. He's hovered around 200 since joining the army so I'm getting close! I can't wait till I'm 50lbs lighter than him and he can actually pick me up. =)

I want to be the thin one in my family and group of friends. I'm sick and tired of being the giant.

And honestly... that's pretty much it for "evil" motivations.

I want to see the guy who told me that I was single because of my weight. I want to see the look on his face, and then I want to be able to say..."Um? Sorry, who are you again?".

I never again want to hear my mom say “You’re so pretty. If only you’d lose weight…”
I want to be the hot sister (or at least a hot sister, since my brother and sister are both attractive and I’ve ALWAYS been the overweight one).
I don’t want to be the heaviest girl at our family gatherings.
I want to wear a bikini for the first time ever!
I want to be able to be in pictures (especially when traveling/during big occasions) and know I look good.

wouldn't call it an evil motivation per se but...

When my ex-boyfriend/bestfriend/roommate (we sometimes simplify it by saying significant other, we're really close) comes back from deployment next year, I want to be smoking hot.

- Want to wear a smokin' hot dress to our holiday party this year. I want to have mouths drop and have folks murmur..."Did you see what she had on?!"

- Want my guy to take me shopping in Victoria Secrets (or as my friend calls it, Victoria Secretions). I have NEVER had anything from there.

- Want my body to match my face. ALL growing up....it was always..."You have such a pretty face!"

When I told my OB/Gyn that I was going to start trying to lose weight, he implied that I wouldn't be able to do so without surgery. Eighty-two pounds and change later, I'm pretty sure he was wrong about that. When I go there again in four or five months, I want to inform him of this personally. Hopefully with something like a hundred pounds and change backing me up. I want him to feel like a jerk.

My sister's always been the cute one. I want to at least give her a run for her money.

-Im another for proving my dad wrong. One less thing for him to pick fault with (although then he ll probably find something else to pick at!)
-Bit of a contradiction, but i also want to make my parents proud. My brother and i were both big when growing up, my brother has now lost all of his weight and people are always saying to my parents how gorgeous my bro is. I want people saying 'both your kids are gorgeous'!

-The ex. Enough said.

WOW! Your OB/Gyn sounds like a jerk!

Please do tell him off whenever you go see him again, and come back and tell us how it goes.

My husband has an ex girlfriend that we have run into several times around town. She has probably lost 100 plus pounds since he broke up with her (for me) a few years ago. I have gained at least 50. She looks amazing, and I hate it (since we're being honest and evil here)! Especially since I know she is thinking, "I bet he's sorry he left me to be with that fat girl!" He's not sorry at all. She's a gold digger and isn't even smart enough to be good at it. That only makes me feel worse because I know how dumb she is and somehow she can get it together enough to lose weight! I'd love to run into her one day, hopefully she will have regained a little and I will have lost a lot. I wouldn't say anything. Just wink at her. Mmmmm....Maybe that's how I need to think of it. Revenge is sweeter than dessert!

Love the thread! I will think about it and come up with a few too.

@margarita124 - You can do it! Look at your stats and then look at mine! Same height, same start weight and roughly same age (I am 35). If you are interested, PM me. We can talk :-)