I'd deleted lots of "friends" (generally people from my high school) for making racist, homophobic or sexist remarks. There's a lot of great people in the world who don't talk like that--put your efforts into being friends with them.

Because over in the USA, the food culture is all about size size size MOAR STUFF ON PLATE and that's why there are so many big people.

I agree that people should learn self control but equally restaurants should encourage this by not spooning enormous amounts of food on plates and happily asking 'do you want to supersize that?'. They're not helping the obesity problem, honestly.

I live in the UK and over here, a lot of restaurants have started offering 'modest meals', that is, a main course but in a smaller size. Which is really great, because now I can have my favourite foods but in mini-portions.

Although I must admit, a normal sized UK portion probably would count as a child's portion in the USA. I went to New York once and I was disgusted by the amount of food they gave me. Ugh. Nobody in the world can eat a burger that is almost as big as the plate it's on. I ended up taking half of it away in a takeout box. Seriously, I don't know how you Americans do it. One meal in Denny's is as much as I eat in about three days.

I got defriended (just before I was going to cut her off my list) by a friend from high school on my facebook because of a similar thing. She actually had an album with pictures of overweight individuals she saw at various places. She would take a picture of them and post it along with a caption of where she was and what she saw wrong with the picture. The one that pushed me over the edge was was when she posted something about the clothing a woman was wearing and suggested that they shouldn't be out of the house like that. And she isn't a slender woman herself by any means.

Some people just don't understand what it's like to have a problem, just wait one of these days he will get a taste of his own medicine, even if your not there to witness it, he will get it in some way.

It's pretty disgusting that an adult would go out of their way to take a picture of another human being for the sole purpose of humiliating/degrading that person. Pathetic.

It makes me sad when people do stuff like this or say it's okay to do stuff like this. It's stupid to assume that the woman is using a walker just because she's too fat to walk on her own. What is she's been in an accident or has a disability of some kind? I have multiple sclerosis and I would hate to have someone assume that something I was forced to do because of my disease is something I'm doing just because I'm fat and lazy. We don't know a stranger's personal history so it's really unfair to judge someone like this for any reason. People need to take a long, hard look at themselves if they feel like something like this is okay.

I was gonna make the point that Kimberly made here...

People have no idea...maybe she has degenerative arthritis and her immobility is what caused her weight to get this way and not the other way around. When you close your mind to all possibilities you close your mind to a lot...and it's a lonely world when you close your mind.

Maybe she does. But... So what if her weight was caused by mobility problems? That's not really an excuse for being overweight. Just because you can't move properly doesn't mean that you have to overeat. I know plenty of people with mobility problems that aren't overweight. Moderate what you eat, even if you're not exercising. It's basic maths, it's not very hard.

I may be coming across as a bit harsh here but I honestly don't think there is an 'excuse' for being overweight. Disability certainly isn't an excuse. Just... watch what you eat. It's simple common sense. Harp on about diseases and mobility problems all you like, the plain fact is that most people are overweight because they eat too much.

Sorry again if I seem harsh. But there really is no reason why people can't moderate what they eat. I did it. My mum did it. Loads of people on here have evidently done it, with amazing results. So I don't see why other people can't do it. I guess they just keep making excuses and reasons why they can't. There's no such word as can't. This is your health we're talking about, sort it out.

Going to run away from this thread now before I get kicked out, lol...

Wysteria, I understand where you're coming from and everyone should strive to be at their healthiest. However, I don't agree with you that weight gain is always so simple as overeating. When you have MS, for example, steroids are often used to treat bad relapses. Steroids cause you to gain weight whether you like it or not. You could eat salads all day and still gain weight. Now, I realize that the woman in the above mentioned photo probably does not have MS. My point is that you shouldn't mock people because of their size since there is no way of knowing them or their medical history. Also, even if she is just fat because she makes terrible choices, saying hurtful things doesn't help anyone.

I don't want this to come across as harsh either...but I have to wonder Wysteria if you have ever been more then 170 pounds? If not, I don't know if you can really understand.
If losing weight was simple math, then those who put in a real effort and still don't lose would be skinny. Not to mention, the mental anquish someone can be in. There is a lot more that goes into being overweight then calories in/calories out. There are economics involved...emotional, physical, psychological things all involved...
As far as what you said about restaurants it will never happen. For one thing they are in the business to make money. If they can get you addicted to their food and the biggest most expensive kind possible they will do it. Another thing is, even in America you have a choice. You can eat healthy, by choosing something else healthier off the menu, or choose to not.
I also wonder did this person proceed to watch what she ate? What if she ate a side salad with the dressing on the side and didn't even use it with a glass of water? Every journey starts with one step....
I'm by no means saying being overweight is okay. But, its a personal problem, that you happen to wear on your sleeve. What if I picked out some random guy and decided to post pictures saying he was a drug addict, or posted a picture saying this guy is a theif. I can tell by what they are wearing, saying, doing. It really doesn't make sense.
I feel bad for this woman. How trapped she must feel in that body. Even if she eats horribly, she is probably a slave to it, for some reason or another. And maybe has no way to get help. When I see people like this, all I can feel is sympathy and hope that one day they figure it out.
I am sure I will get slammed for my comments, but that's okay. I have struggled with my weight my whole life...and those who haven't really can't understand it....

You're right, it IS harsh. Regardless of everything you just said (some of it I agree w/ and some of it I don't)...before your mom lost weight, how would you have felt if pictures of HER showed up on this guy's facebook??? There's right and wrong and there's human decency...and posting a picture of someone who has no idea you're doing so and degrading them for their weight, their looks, etc. is just way outside the bounds of human decency.

[quote=Natasha1534;3401278]You're right, it IS harsh. Regardless of everything you just said (some of it I agree w/ and some of it I don't)...before your mom lost weight, how would you have felt if pictures of HER showed up on this guy's facebook??? There's right and wrong and there's human decency...and posting a picture of someone who has no idea you're doing so and degrading them for their weight, their looks, etc. is just way outside the bounds of human decency.[/quote]

I agree.

And I agree with this.

This.

I'm not sure it was rude. Rude is much too kind a term for someone who would do such a nasty, cold, childish, bullying, cheap and, yes, self-aggrandizing thing. I sense that a person does this as if to say 'I'm so wonderful that I simply can't let such UNwonderful people go without being ridciuledc- I'm doing them a favor"