I guess it just goes to show how different everyone's path can be. I know at 244lbs, I didn't feel comfortable at all : I couldn't afford a proper sports bra, we didn't have the money for a gym membership : I felt like I waddled when I walked and the chafing was unbelievable. That was just me. I know this self-consciousness was a personal problem but it was a reality I had to deal with. So I started with focusing on my diet. And when I felt comfortable with exercising, I started.
I have a Dear SIL -God Love Her who goes to the gym every day. She wants to lose weight (60 lbs or so to get to the top end of a healthy weight), but she hasn't addressed her diet. She just believes that nothing works for her because exercising isn't resulting in weight loss. I've tried to suggest that it might be the daily piece of apple pie with ice cream, double breakfasts (one at her home, one at ours), tortilla chips and sour cream dip as appetizers, double daquiries at 2pm, the full lunch and dinner with DQ ice cream afterwards that might need to be addressed.
SO, if she was to ASK me, I would say that exercise is great, but she needs to sort out her eating habits if she wants to see results because 45 minutes on an elliptical won't do much to mitigate the imapct that her two Eggs Benedict, toast, bacon and jam for her first breakfast has on her body. That's all.
And my post was primarily for those just beginning -- there is so much to do "perfectly" in so many peoples' minds that they just give up. If they can focus on diet as
diet accounts for 80% of what you look like, they will see results. And like I said, exercise is VITAL for maintenance, not that I'm there yet hahahahah but it is VITAL. But you CAN lose weight without exercise! And you can exercise like mad and not lose weight!
Kira