Just lost my baby

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  • Like everyone else has given, i think you first deserve a big

    My sister lost her baby after 5 months of pregnancy in May. When I heard it hit me like a ton of bricks, I could never imagine what she must have felt. There is nothing anyone can really say to make it any easier or to give an answer to why that sort of loss has to be experienced, I just want to tell you you'll make it through it. Take care of yourself in the process.
  • I am so sorry for your loss Lindsay ... Like Counting, I also lost at least 4 babies to miscarriages; so some of us do know exactly how you feel. In this life, there is always someone who has gone through what you are now. GOD has been so gracious and has helped me through those times; and He can do the same for you.

    Take good care of yourself ...


    ROSEBUD
  • I am so sorry to hear of everything you've been going through and especially the loss of your baby. You could be having some hormonal issues (your body adjusting to no longer being pregnant) and besides that, just give yourself time to mourn the loss of your baby. Rest and be good to yourself. Come here and keep posting. Take it one day at a time.
  • thank you guys very much.
    Thats how Im living right now. one day at a time. thats all i can do, really.
  • no amount of words can express how sorry i am for your loss.
    my advice to you is to join a support group in your area for grief and loss for babies. most hospitals have a program in place.
    it is normal to go thru the stages of a loved one dying, grieving is part of the steps. depression if very common and can be treated.
    would also be a good idea to talk to your doctor about antidepressants.
    it is hard enough to lose a loved one, but you have a lot more stress added to your life.
    if you need more info, you can post to me privately.
    i would be happy to get you more information or just to chat.
    sorry you ex is a jerk!!!!!
    he needs a swift kick in the tush.
    holly
    ob rn
  • I'm so sorry. *hugs*
  • I'm so sorry sweetie

    I never know what to say when these things happen, but I'm thinking about you and I hope you'll be able to grieve and take care of yourself and that things get better very soon for you.
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