Hi ya,

I agree with everyone here and I see you talked to him and decided to be friends, that sounds like a great idea. I had a simular situation too, I wasn't in a band, but we had the same friends. So I just eventually I worked through my feelings and we were able to become friends and it helped both of us.

So take care and like the other ladies said, concentrate on "YOU" right now. HAng out with friends, how about a girls night out or something?

Anyways, there are lots of great people here and they have lots of great advice!

I think it's good that you at talked. I think you should see him as little as possible during this time as you really sort through how you feel. Being around him can sway your feelings and you won't be quite as objective. Its REALLY easy to slip back into a bf/gf relationship if you are seeing him often. Oftentimes, when a couple breaks up but still sees each other they find themselves right back in a relationship whether they are willing to admit it or not.

Glad you seem to be feeling better!!

slimming down , you know yours stuff , i feel like thats happening . . . wow your good.