Misa,
Hello again. I am just so happy that you know we are all hear for you. I comletely understand that this is not something that some people choose to talk about and if you choose not to reply to this that is totally fine.

I have two best friends and each of us had sons with in a few months of each other. Both of them had miscarriages the first time they conceived and then got pregnant again right away and had healthy babies. It is something that is incredibly painful to go through and some people think because the pregnancy is so new that it's "not so bad". That could not be further from the truth. You have every right to greive the loss of a life and to take as much time as you need to decide wether or not this is something you want to try again. Whether you deside to do so, or to adopt you will be an amazing mother and you will have a life to bring into the world. That being said, if you do become pregnant again it will not replace the life that you lost, and do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Getting pregnant a second time would be a blessing and you will feel somewhat whole again, but don't let people tell you "it's ok you will get pregnant again". That life can't be replaced, but the sadness you feel right now will be replaced with joy. You need and deserve the time to grieve and when you are ready you will be an amazing mom. I hope to hear form you again, but if not please know that you and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers and the life that you created will not be forgotten. All the best. -Tanya

misa, i hope you see this, but i don't know if you're still reading since i've been gone a couple of days. i just wanted to let you know that i am so sorry to hear your terrible news. tanya said everything i would want to say in a better way then i could have gotten it across. i'm still here for you if you need to talk or vent or need a shoulder to cry on. feel free to pm me anytime you want, or if you're interested, i can pm you my email and we can talk that way. i hope that you and your husband are taking good care of each other right now and know that you can take all the time you need to grieve and feel whatever you are feeling. you and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers, lori :hug:

Enjoy YOur pregnancy
 

I wouldn't worry about my weight right now. Pregnancy is hard to get through and worse if you are counting the ounces piling on as your little one grows. I was pretty heavy when I got pregnat last year (we also found out for christmas) and had a difficult pregnancy. At first I was crying every night over the weight I was gaining and my clothes fitting tighter and tighter, but then I realized what a miracle (cliche, I know, but true) my body was going through. And honestly, McDonald's fillet'o fish, fries and a large soda taste so much better when you are not worrying about how much weight its going to make you gain. If anything, keep active, it makes the weight easier to loose once you have your baby since you are already used to being active. Cut yourself some slack and have a milkshake, it'll make things so much easier and enjoyable.

Sorry for your loss
 

Misa,
I didn;t read all the postings before posting myself, I am so sorry for your loss. In my country we celebrate the passing of our loved ones to the next world, the sooner people leave it means they were needed in the next world. I hope you will not get discouraged from trying again for another baby, they are truly a blessing you should have in your life.