Sassy - I've been there too for sure...it seems that DH & I have everything together...we have a home, good stable jobs...we're more than ready for kids, and all these people who don't seem as ready just get pregnant no problem. It's very frustrating and you're definitely not alone in your feelings. You know, hearing about pregnant people is actually the reason I stopped going to Curves - it seemed like a grandma's club where all they talked about was their grandchildren or their daughters who were pregnant or whatever...it got to be too much so I quit and now go to a gym where it's mostly guys! No pregnancy talk happening there! haha

Teresa - How are you feeling?

Vanessa - Hope you're feeling better today! Sorry you're having challenges with your teeth - my sister has a lot of problems too and it sucks. I didn't watch the last Biggest Loser but I did watch the one before it - it's amazing what those people have accomplished!

As for me nothing new, just waiting for my workday to end so I can head home! Come on 4:30!

Sassy: I feel that way right now too! And I feel guily for even saying so....My SIL is pg now (again) and I swear she just gets pg to have an excuse to quit her jobs! It happens every time she get a job, I'm not kidding! I mean, I love her and BIL very much, I think it's just negativity and a bit of jealousy on my part.
My point is, I know how you feel! I don't think it makes us bad people, but it's impossible not to react somehow. We're have really tough challenges to get around, we deserve a break too!

Liz: Thanks for the good wishes for my teeth! I'll get over it eventually, it's just going to cost a fortune. I sometimes wonder what's behind my letting it get so bad, I mean, I do bruth my teeth and floss, but never go for cleanings, checkups, etc. How I can I treat myself so badly? In more ways than just the teeth, I mean. My body (and mind I guess) in general has gone to **** and I've been letting it.... Guess I've just got issues...

Teresa: The mouth is feeling ok today, maybe a bit sore though. How's everything with you? Have you started your new meds yet?

Ecstatic!!!!!
 

:carrot: Ladies, I have to tell you that I was extremely ecstatic when I got on the scales yesterday!!! For the first time in almost 4 years, I was BELOW 300 pounds. Granted it was only 299.6, but the scales that I have now have never shown in the 200s since I owned them (when I get on them any)!!:carrot:

And it's down to 297 today!!! I couldn't be happier!!!

Yeah! Christie that's awesome! Are you still dieting and exercising?
I'm waiting, not so patiently, for the scale to say something below 200! I'll have a damn party when that happens.

Congratulations!

Christie: Sorry I called you Teresa a little bit ago! I just saw dancing carrots...Ay, so embarassing! You can blame root canal pain meds! I'm only a fraction functional. Anyway- you're doing amazing, keep it up!

Hi Cysters and thanks for all the lovely responses.

:hug: to everybody.

WTG Christie! :woohoo:

Hey Girls

I am glad to report im feeling a bit better i think the Flu is starting to leave. I am not gonna type for long on this has i have to get going , but i just wanted to say t everyone thank you for you get well messages and i will reply to all properly when i feel much better.

Take care lots of love

:hohoho: Teresa :hohoho:

Sassy: Your friend sends shivers down my spine... My BEST friend has had two abortions and eventually a son at 19 years old that she loves now but didn't want to keep initially. Granted, this has been since we were like 15 or something, but still....The son (who is now 7) was meant as a trap. Didn't work, his dad bailed. It's awful to see that kind of thing, especially when we have such a hard time. I used to threaten to take my best friend's boy because I was so mad at her when I was ttc. It just isn't fair.
To recap: She's fine, her son is fine, and I'm not mad at her for her fertility anymore. My, how we've grown...lol

Teresa: I'm glad you're improving! I'm sick too so I know how you feel!

Everyone: I'm sorry for no personal notes! DH is on his way in the door and he always reads over my shoulder!! I hate that! Anyway, DH will be hanging around a lot more int he next few weeks but I'm going to make a point of checking in at least once a day! Ill just have to beat his butt away from the computer so I can have my privacy! LOL

Hey everybody. Just not feeling in the best of "spirits" lately.

I hope you all are doing well!

:hug:

Sassy: You ok? Is it the holidays? Or did I mess up by telling that story? I hope I didn't make you feel bad!

Everyone: HI THERE!! Ready for the holiday? I'm trying really hard to get into the spirit but....it's hard. MIL willb e here Thursday....Joy...She'll spoil my little guy though, that's good.

Hey Vanessa, no nothing you said hon. I think its just me. Either its hormones or me just readjusting to the Wellbutrin again that I messed up on and went a week without. (ARRRRRRRRR! I need a personal assistant for my brain sometimes!) I think I am going to set up some reminders on my computer to REMIND me when I need to call the dr or the pharmacy for refills so I do not run out!!!

Okay and I need some energy here to finish up my cleaning. I am almost done with laundry!!!!!! :carrot: But I need to finish up the bathroom and organizing the linen closet.

I feel "better", emotion wise today. So I think it could be hormones, because I do notice that it seems I feel down or whatever when AF is raging and she just had a "spurt" again and now she has calmed down again. So I'm thinking its hormonal and I know, I know, I need to get to the dr.

Well won't ramble on, but I wanted to pop in.

I hope you all are doing well and are ready for the holidays, I'm surely not!!!! lol.

:hug:

Hey girls!

Sorry I've been MIA - fertility friend has been sucking all of my time away...and my focus has definitely not been on w/l like it should be. I was up 3 lbs, but am now up only 1 lb on my ticker weight, I seemed to have lost 2 of them overnight so that's good! I can't bear to change my ticker though, I'm sure it will be back to 218 before long anyways.

Vanessa - I am pretty much ready - just a bit of wrapping to do is all - and then I'll be set! I know what you mean about MIL's - mine is a big weirdo. She came over the other night and saw that I had flowers from my bday and realized she forgot it (it was on dec 8). So she ran out to get me a card and brought it back to give to me, and then proceeded to blame DH for not telling her it was my b-day! I told her it was no big deal and DH was like "hey, don't blame me!" haha I mean, i've been with DH for like 10 years, you'd think she wouldn't need to be told anymore. lol

Sassy - Glad you're feeling a bit better and definitely set up that reminder for yourself girlie! :) And tell that AF to GET LOST! I would be very down too if I had to deal with that for so long! :hug:

Anyhow should get back to work, talk soon!

Hey all.

Just a quick hello. :wave: Well for now (knocking on wood here) AF is very very very calm, like she wants to go away, I hope she does, would be a great Holiday Present for me! lol

I all of a sudden feel like crapola. I think that I need to eat something.....:barf:

Well I'm off to go join the "Rat Race" and finish up some shopping......;)

:hug:

Hi everyone!! I only have a minute to type. DH is underfoot so uch right now! LOL! I almost want him to just go back to work! His vacation is for another 6 days...hope he survives!

Sassy: Are you feeling better yet? You seem like you've got the blues pretty bad....Stupid holidays! And I swear! AF still for you?!! If I could take some of it for you, I would. LOL, Seeing as I skipped last month, I could use some AF.

Everyone else: HELLO!! I promise one of these days soon I'll have enough time to devote to all of you personally! MIL gets here tomorrow night (yay) and we're hosting Xmas so it's going to be tough going. DH is aslways reading over my shoulder when I'm on here so I avoid it.
Sometimes I see him coming and I yell something like "Cervical Mucous!!", and he stays away. But I don't always get to him in time. LOL.

Anyway, I've met my December weight loss goal!! Yeah! And 10 days early even! I'm hoping to continue to kick *** (I'm so modest, I know) and maybe start January off ahead od schedule. I want to 50 pound total loss by January 30th! I think I'm within realistic range for that.... omg!

I'll definitely make time to check in tomorrow morning or maybe late tonight.
<3<3<3

New Here
 

I just want to say hi to you all. I am new to 3FC. Right now I am on a TTC break and anxiously awaiting till June to TTC. I am hoping to lose some weight and get healthier before then. I look forward to posting on this board.

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