Hi!! to 3FC neighbor to my east!! We actually have a forum devoted to OA, and I moved your post in here. If you click on the Chicks in Control forum, at the very top, you'll notice the OA forum.
Oh, sorry. I haven't been, but there are a few regulars here that will fill you in
Yes, I have years ago and now I've been waiting for it to get light enough late enough at night so I can go again as the closest to me is an hour away.
So maybe this next Monday night.
If you have several around where you are I'd go to them all till ya find the right one to fit you and give them more than one try, sometimes it takes several tries.
This is a wonderful oa forum too, lots of helpful recovering people here that are willing to share their experience, strength, and hope.