I'm one of those that doesn't have an OA meeting in my area and I took the suggestion of a friend and went to an AA meeting and asked for help. Now the one I went to was all MEN! Of course, I about backed out the door but something pushed me into the room.
I was totally accepted by all and they all said you want help we are here for you no matter what your addiction. Now I'm realistic and know that that might not happen in every AA meeting but it's worth a try.
I also attend some of the OA meetings on line and they help too but I find the face to face contact is best for me.
Just a thought and if it helps one person receive help I'm glad I shared it.
hugs
patd