OK, I'm officially bummed. I typed in a big response and the server burped and the whole thing was lost (which means THIS time I'll copy the message before hitting "post reply").
Alrighty then--my best grocery trick? A meal prep place to handle most of my dinner/lunch entrees. I pick 8 or 9 selections each month. Each one serves 4 (or more at my portion sizes these days) and I make them up in 2-serving sizes. You sign up, go in for a session time, and the place has everything ready. Since *I* do the actual assembly, I can customize for my tastes (like more onions, less spicy/hot spices). The place I go to--http://designeddinners.com--posts calorie and other nutritional info so I can pick wisely from their monthly list of 16 options. The advantages for me: I eat a much wider variety of stuff than if I was fixing it on my own (that means I eat a LOT more fish now and a lot fewer dried out broiled chicken breasts!). While the cost of the meals may seem sort of expensive at first, I find it's actually cheaper for me because I don't have to buy whole containers of "exotic" ingredients or spices just to use a teaspoon or tablespoon once or twice.
I go in tomorrow for my January freezer load up--here's what I'm getting (yup, this counts as "shopping" for me):
Grilled Moroccan Style Breast of Chicken ( 4 Srvs )
Jalapeno Bacon wrapped Meat Loaf*** ( 4 Srvs )
Lemon & Roasted Garlic Chicken ( 8 Srvs )
Peach BBQ Glazed Pork Loin Chop ( 4 Srvs )
Spinach & Cheese Tortellini ( 4 Srvs )
Tandoori Spiced Grilled Salmon ( 4 Srvs )
Turkey Medallions ( 8 Srvs )
It only takes me about an hour to assemble everything and the place I go to serves wine (or mimosas for the brunch sessions on the weekend) along with (diet) sodas, fruit, cheese, crackers. Lately, I forego the alcohol and most of the munchies, but it definitely makes for a better experience than I'd have at home and there's no way I could put together 32+ entrees in an hour there!
If you're interested (no affiliation, I'm just a huge fan of these places now), here's a place where you can search to see if there's one near you:
http://www.easymealprep.com/main/direct01.php
Once I have my freezer full of pre-assembled entrees, my grocery shopping is greatly simplified: fruits, veggies, a lot of salad mixes, salad dressing (I like the LiteHouse brand, esp Ginger Sesame at 35 cal/2T), Morningstar products (esp breakfast links and corndogs!), yogurt, rice cakes, oatmeal (standard morning fare), and....lots of TP (now that I'm drinking so much more water!).
Tracy