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Ok nwcgina- you have permission to kick my butt! And the Nordsrom trip was diaappointing- the 12s did fit but I don't look right in the skinnier leg. Upper thighs are too flabby- I have that chicken drumstick look, if yu know what I mean. I didn't buy anything. I felt a little sorry for myself, I admit. I'm thinner but REALLY need firming up. My advice to anyone younger is never stop strength training. Bat wing arms are forever... But now I am on my way to the alterations lady with the 14s, so that should encourage me! March, here we come!
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Thanks for sharing picture of Jen in newspaper. Jen you are awesme and what a motivation for all on this forum. Brandy.... When I hit a problem I go back to my green menu, the last one on Meta Slim for a few days or until I get weighed in to see what happened.. I did go 5 pounds under goal to give me a buffer and sure have used it.. When I went to the stabilization/maintenance party last year , there were many that were on maintenance , if they gained went back to the green menu, so don't know why your center would tell you not to.. On stabilization, if i gained, I omitted what I added by substitution and tried it when on maintenance. I still do that now. I am always trying new things, if I gain, off my food list they go for time being.. Did I answer your question? Want to congratulate all the losers , say hello and welcome to any newbies, and wish you all a great weigh in. Patzi |
Thanks Patzi. I totally trust you over the clinic since you are living it right now. I asked again today and they said to never go backwards but to cut out the starches. It's kind of the same thing.
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camaswa-just remember, no one can see the tag with the size on it...they just see how hot you look;) Part of me doesn't want to give up my 14's since they are baggy and show that I'm skinnier...with some of the 12's being snug they may actually make me look bigger. And each pair of pants fits so different...you know that...but it stinks when you think you should be in a certain size (I did that the otherday with a workout top...I thought I should be in a L, (some mediums fit) and in that particular shirt/cut I needed an XL...which they didn't have. Went to a different store...same shirt,different brand, L, probably could have done M). NO ONE CAN SEE THE TAG! (I have to remind myself of that).
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You are right! About the size thing...
I just got 5 pairs of dressy pants altered for less than one new pair would cost. One particular pair she took up 4 inches in the waist! She asked if I wanted her to cut off the excess or leave it in case I ever needed them let back out. Can you imagine???I about bit her head off! |
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Good Morning Ladies, Congrats on all the success that you guys have achieved for the week!!!! I still hanging in there, went to WI yesterday and was down 1lb, not happy with it, but i'll take it. I increased my exercise to 30 minutes of cardio 5 times a week and on the weekends I do strength training with abs/triceps/biceps alternating for about an hour. I was told to cut back on the exercising during the week and elinminate strength training as this may be stalling my weight loss as I should be losing 3lbs per week. I was totally devastated as I really enjoy exercising now since I am able to do it without being out of breathe after 5 minutes.
Once again congrats to all who have had success this week and even those who struggle but continue on, and welcome to all the Newbies, It works if you work it. Michelle |
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i had one counselor tell me to cut back on exercising and wt. lifting and then two others tell me no way - to continue exercising and lifting weights. as you can tell from this board, the answers to our questions are all different depending on what center and what counselor you talk to. you have to do what is best for you... |
Michelle-Here's my experience, take it for what it's worth. You have to be the one that decides what is best for you (like big dog said)...
Before I started MRC I was a big exerciser. 30-60 minutes of hard cardio and or strength training 5-6 days a week...sometimes more. People would say that I should be a stick...but the problem was I was overcompensating with eating too much, so stuck...then I started MRC and I knew it was time to just focus on eating. The calories on the plan (green) were too little for me to keep up my same exercising. I didn't have the energy. So I did a few weeks of no exercise, then I got to where I could do low energy activities about 3 days a week...pilates, yoga, walking, or light strength. Much more would zap me...or I couldn't even lift up my legs. But I knew it was time for me to focus on eating...and it happened that I was busy and also nursing an injury so it was a good time to cut back. Got to the point where I had lost about 20 lbs and did some calculations based on my body fat...and I'd lost about 7 lbs of muscle (which lowers metabolic rate). So I decided it was time to add in more activity. When I did I was STARVING. So I told my center I was ready to exercise more and was too hungry. My consultant listened and suggested a different eating plan that is SUPPOSED to slow down loss, but it actually sped up a bit with me because of the increased activity (I'm running 2x per week, intense cardio strength circuit DVD's 2x per week, 1 day of pilates/yoga/core, and then the other 2 days I can rest if my body is hurting-it is today-or do light activity like walking or dancing). I decided AT THIS POINT even if it slowed my loss, it was time to add back in activity and build my muscle back up. But I also know it was totally important for me to step away from the exercise for a time and see that it's what I put in my mouth that is most important. For me, the exercise isn't for weight loss or even looking good (although that helps), it is for my mental health:) And lesson re-learned this week. Because I had amped up the running and lost more I was a little overconfident and started snitching bites off my kids' plates (justfiying that I was more active...which is why I could never lose in the first place). So the scale creaped up...yes, I'm sure I'm also building muscle/retaining fluid for muscle repair. But I now learned not to snitch (when time comes for maintenance, I can have scheduled treats) and to cycle my exercise program so that I don't have a heavy workout right before a weigh in (especially strength). See my weekly schedule below...it's all a work in progress: Monday (official weigh-in): Strength/cardio circuit (after weigh in) Tuesday: Pilates/Yoga/core Wednesday: Run/walk Thursday: Strength cardio Friday: rest or light activity Saturday: Run/walk Sunday: rest (strength days affect my weight the most for about 24-48 hours due to fluid accumulation from repair). |
Oh so close to seeing the 150's...had I not had my mishap with sneaking some bites of stuff Mon-Wed I probably would have hit it. Lesson learned. Great strength workout this morning...ready to build the muscle back!
Here's to a great and new week! |
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I have a question. If it takes 3,500 calories to gain 1 lb., how is it that a bite of this or that every once in a while would increase your weight? |
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Great job, guys! Gina - I love your enthusiasm for working out. I do Zumba 4-5 times per week and the elliptical 1 or 2 days... but sometimes I feel the need to switch it up a little. Leo - You're right about the calories, but one thing about this plan is that it's formulated exactly for how your body works. For example, on my program, I can't have fruit at breakfast or dinner. I think it has to do with the natural sugars produced when eating fruit and at lunch it's needed to keep your blood sugar up to get you through the day. I too gain weight when I snitch bites... or I maintain. I also think, for me, it's a slippery slope of non-accountability when I sneak bites of my kids' meals (i.e. macaroni and cheese or their ice cream)... it seems to snowball into cravings and things I don't need in order to stay focused... just my two cents. It's funny that this topic was brought up because that's exactly what happened to me this weekend. I got a few bites of ice cream and mac/cheese and this morning I was up 2 pounds... ugh. Time to hit the water and the excerise to un-do this! Have a great Monday! |
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Good morning ladies!
Well, this past week I have had a increase in my appetite...Always the week before my period. So, the challenge of course is making good choices when I want to snack:) Also, adding these foods on Stabilization is great, but the temptation to have a whole banana rather than just a 1/2 of one is hard when you haven't had one in 8 months!! LOL I keep thinking that with oatmeal or cream of wheat or graham crackers, I am allowed "one serving size" according to the box. NOT! Try 1/2 of a serving...so I am messing up sometimes, but that is OK. Now I know! My counselor introduced "Wasa" crackers to me. Apparently you can now have those in place of your "bread" while OP, rather than the Melba toast..etc..These are yummy. I get the "sesame" kind and very good for a change. But, she is right...it is hard to stop at 2 of them! You can get them at Wal-mart next to the Melba toast. Well, hang in there all! I feel so much more relaxed now that I am not on a constant mission to lose weight!! I didn't realize just how overwhelming that time was until now. I knew it was hard, and I was always hard on myself, but now it is even more clear. Remember, it took me a while to lose 50lbs because I wasn't in a hurry and because I think I would have given up on the program if I didn't cut myself some slack occasionally. Some do well with sticking to it strictly and lose rapidly...but we are not all the same. In the end 50lbs is 50lbs...how we each get there is individual! Embrace YOUR journey and be OK with it being different than others...No comparing yourself..it doesn't motivate:) |
I like that, Tami - embrace your journey. Very motivating! I also wondered about the Wasa crackers... will be a nice change!
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Big Dog...
When I hit maintenance and was allowed wine, I had the bar or restaurant give me a large glass and tell them to put the wine serving in the glass with club soda, ice and lemon slices... It is my version of a wine cooler.. It is good. I can make two glasses of wine last a lot longer... Patzi |
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Tamikl,
As we say in church - Amen & Amen! Embrace YOUR journey! Don't compare yourself to others as we are all different. I also agree with cutting yourself some slack SOMETIMES - speaking of which........on Superbowl Sunday, I'm having family over to watch the game. I'm going to allow myself SOME treats. It does help that everyone coming to the party knows I'm embarking on this "lifestyle change" and two of my biggest supporters (my daughter & cousin) will be there to keep me "in check." |
Leo-a couple reasons why a few bites can show up on the scale...one is if they have a lot of sodium (water retention). The other reason is most MRC plans while not as low carb as Atkins, they are quite a bit lower in carbohydrate so your body doesn't store as much as glycogen (which is why some people like me don't have the physical energy to engage in heavy exercise while on the plan). When your body stores glycogen it has a high affinity to water, so you get a little more water weight that way. So the bites of cheeseits and cookies I had last week that caused the scale to go up...mainly water weight from my body saying "hey, here's some carbs, let's store them as glycogen..." which is totally a good thing when wanting to exercise, but demotivating on the scale. That is why when someone starts eating fewer carbs they see a rapid drop...depletion of glycogen and the water that goes with it.
And the other thing for me...one bite leads to 10. 1 cookie leads to a dozen. That's an emotional/spiritual issue I need to work through for maintenance. It's why I've never been able to lose in the past despite eating healthy most of the time and exercising like crazy. Undoing my healthy choices by a few bad choices that led to more bad choices. |
I'm a newbie! Have truly enjoyed reading all of the comments and suggestions. Trying to get to sign the 20 lb. lost board this week.
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Hey, Ladies! I am back...full time! Woohoo!!!
All the audits here at work are over for now, with none on the horizon. It didn't help whatsoever with my weight loss efforts. I faced the music today and got my butt back to the center. For the past two weeks, I've had an auditor attached to the hip. We ate out every day. My husband was on day care duty because of early starts and/or late nights. The pantry was bare since there was no time to get groceries, so that equaled a lot of eating out at night too. When the audit ended Friday, I felt like this huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders, but it landed on my butt. To the tune of 4.5 pounds. :( Now, I have to get the weight back off and finish this phase of my journey. It's past time! While I knew the ad was running in our area, I didn't know it was being taken national and neither did my center. LOL We got a great laugh. It's kinda fun, but also now I feel the pressure to live up to the ad and get these last few pounds off. I know I can do it and now, I have no reason not to. I got my check today from the center for winning the contest. That was an awesome moment. I thought long and hard what I wanted to do with that check. I finally decided. I'm going back to a professional running store here in town and getting fitted for running shoes. The last time I did that was about 10 years ago. There's a 15K coming up and I want to run it again. I've run it 5 times in my life and DANG IT, I'm going to do it again! I haven't run it since I got married and then pregnant and I need to prove to myself I can do this! I won't be the fastest by any means, but I will finish it. Since the ad was posted (thanks, BigDog), I thought I'd post the whole testimonial that I wrote since they only gave you a few lines of it. :) Who says you can’t lose weight after having a baby?! Well, somewhere along the way, I got it in my head that once I got pregnant I would never see my old self again. I heard my other mom friends say that. Kiss your old body goodbye. Everywhere I turned, I was told I was doomed to a life of being overweight because I was a mom now. There would be no time to eat right or exercise. There would be no time for myself. I was a mom. If being overweight wasn’t bad enough, I was only 38 and on 11 blood pressure pills a day due to severe preeclampsia during the pregnancy. Suffice it to say, it was a depressing road to be on. A little over a year after having my daughter, I was walking through the mall and had to stop and sit on a bench to catch my breath. I realized I didn’t want to live this way anymore. Something inside me finally said I wasn’t going to just give up on myself. Not only that, I wanted to set a good example for my daughter. I needed to learn how to eat right. I needed to learn what a normal portion size was. I needed to learn how to take the weight off sensibly so I could keep it off. I needed to learn good eating habits so I could teach her so she didn’t have the same issues I had. I was NOT going to just resign myself to being overweight. Enough was enough. In February 2011, I walked into Metabolic Research Center and got my life back on track! Thanks to the incredible support of all the counselors at my branch, I am in better shape that I was when I got pregnant! I not only lost all the baby weight, I weigh less now than I did the day I got married. I’ve had to have my wedding rings re-sized down…twice. I’ve also went from having to take eleven blood pressure pills a day to one. It hasn’t always been an easy road, but I wouldn’t change a moment of it because I’ve learned from the ups and downs. I’m about to turn 40 and am in better shape than when I turned 30. It’s so exciting to know I’ll be going into the new year at my goal weight instead of making a resolution to lose weight. The biggest lesson I learned is how much more of a mental game than a physical game losing weight is. The mind is a powerful thing, but if I ever had issues, I knew I could go in to my local MRC or pick up the phone and my counselors would be there for me. I couldn’t have done this without them and I’m eternally grateful. If you’re a mom that needs to lose weight, I encourage you to take that first step and walk into your local Metabolic Research Center. It won’t always be an easy journey, but it will be worth it in the end. |
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I know exactly what you're saying! As I mentioned before, I had a handful of caramel popcorn over the weekend, and after it was all said & done, I probably had at least 4 more over the course of the weekend. ****, I wanted to eat the ENTIRE tin! What helps me with my willpower is that mentally I actively think, "I'll be able to have these things again in 6 months or so" but hopefully in 6 months, I won't even want them - aw ****, who am I fooling - I'm going to have my "treats" - just not so often & not so much! |
Hey Everyone,
So I was eating takeout chinese food this weekend (panda express catered for my daughter's birthday)....woops. I ate two large plates over the weekend, and was up half a pound. Probably because of all the sodium/water retention. I was bummed, but I knew I could have done better. I'll try to be perfect tomorrow and the next day and see if I can get down again. |
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the main thing is planning ahead and being prepared. where i'll head to disaster if i don't have the right foods in the house and end up eating off plan. w/ all this stuff going on w/ the inlaws, the other day i bought groceries at Walgreens! eggs, cheese but they didnt have light bread so i got cinnamon raisin bagels. wrong choice but i figured out that 1/4 of the bagel was 40 cal.! so eat that in the am. it's like i'm programmed now! and refuse to eat even half of that dang bagel! if i get a sandwich on the road, i pick the meat out - 4 oz., no more! and get extra veggies to get the 8 oz in. my DH wanted rice the other night so i put the extra in the dog food - it was not going in my mouth! CARBS are the devil :devil: (quote from Leo) LOL! |
Hey Ladies,
You may have already heard about this, but I came across it on my playlist this weekend and I thought about you all. It's call Skinny Songs. You can find it on iTunes or visit skinnysongs dot com. They are funny, catchy songs that can help you stay motivated. You can listen to them while you exercise and work out. Hope you enjoy! |
Mornin' all!
Bigdog, I think I'll put that quote in my signature line - "Carbs are the devil!" :devil: :D I also LOVE red wine (especially "blends") & vodka - vodka not so much any more, but it is interesting that the vodka is the lesser of the two evils when it comes to weight loss/management. Interestingly enough, a former co-worker drank vodka tonics like they were going out of style & she was almost as thin as a rail! I haven't had a cocktail since 1/2/12, and I do miss my occasional glass of red during the weekend. When the family went out to eat last week, they were all drinking yummy margaritas & mojitos. I whipped out my "sparkling" water w/fresh lime, poured it in a goblet & was actually satisfied. It was pretty dry, so it was (sorta) a substitute for the dry reds that I like. :D |
Do you all ever feel like your brain and your body are two separate entities that have very little to do with each other? This whole dieting thing is surreal sometimes! The last two weeks I've been on fire loss-wise (oh yeah, that's a good thing!). The weird thing is that I haven't done anything differently - just following my plan the best I can. It's kinda like my brain said "oh yeah, I get it" and told my body to drop some poundage. I wish it would always go this well!
Someone needs to remind me about this post when the pounds are coming off slowly again. Have a great day everyone! Chickadee |
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I had maintenance weigh in today and lost 1 pound, bringing me to6 pounds under goal.. I went back on green menu to lose the weight I had gained , and one day on shakes, and it worked. They told me my body fat is great as is my BMI, so I am happy with today's weigh in. Wishing you all a great weigh in Patzi |
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Skinny tunes, i like that! lots of good information on these boards that are keeping me motivated. way to go Patzi - you have proved to all of us it's a lifestyle change if we want to keep this weight off for good. Jen B, your ad is on my bulletin board in my home office and thks for sharing the whole story- very cool and inspiring. Leo- you originated the Carbs Are the Devil :devil: i love it! i never in a zillion years thought i could cut out carbs but when i saw the numbers going down on the scale knew it was worth it. i do adore my cinnamon light wheat toast every am and my spicy pepper melba toast w/ my dinner salad and lean protein but i don't have the urge to eat 1/2 a box of crackers like i used to. i just hope my DH never brings Cheez doodles in the house though - they would be hard to resist!!! love those dang things!
it's a medi quick kind of day - had a Wonderslim dark chocolate protein shake for b-fast mixed w/ ice and left over coffee - yum!! for lunch, mixed my protidiet pink lemonade w/ frozen strawberries - like a rich strawberry ice cream shake. planning on 3 more HNSs and a regular dinner. love my GE single blender (my best buddy w/ this MRC plan) and i always drink my protein drinks w/ a straw...my DH asked me the reason and i told him because in my mind, it's a delicious shake! he says, well there you go then..LOL! have a great week everyone ! |
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HI everyone. I'm back at it again. I've been back OP for about 2 1/2 weeks now, minus a day here and there, and am down 7lbs. For some reason it's just clicking for me right now. Of course, that's everything I gained over Christmas, so I'm sure it will start to get harder. Only a couple more lbs to get back to my ticker and then the real work starts, I guess. Sounds like everyone is having a pretty successful new year. I'm glad to hear it!
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I felt so good today--had a catered recognition lunch today--I stayed away fromthe hot rolls, mashed potatoes, and chocolate cupcakes with little effort. It felt so good to be in control and resist. It will feel even better next time on the scale. I love saying "carbs are the devil" so true
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fatburningmama..
If you are in control you can only go one place and that is maintenance, it is simple as that.. Good for you.. Be proud of yourself, you did it.. It is a choice that was a good one.. Hope the scale is favorable. Patzi |
thanks, Patzi. It's was only one event but it was a start the right way. I was tellling someone after the lunch, that one of the best things that I love about this program is the fact that I no longer feel that "bloated, stuffed like a Thanksgiving Turkey" feeling after eating now. I don't think i realized truly how much food was on my plates whether it was for the first or the seconds helping. And I certainly hadn't realized in a number of years how much I truly don't mind drinking water.
I enjoy reading everyone's advice here -- I am off to shop on dietdirect and see what "goodies" I can find. |
I went to WI yesterday during lunch and signed the 50 pound board. I have lost a total of 51 pounds since I start this change. I have a found new motivation from this and will power through to meet my goal by the end of March. The goal at the center is 185 but I would like to be around 180. We will see what happens when I get closer to March 30th.
Congratulation all you losers out there. Way to go ladies. |
Way to go, Y!!!! That is so amazing. 50 lbs!! 51!!!
That 160 is still staring at me:) But I'd rather have a couple days here and then when I see 159 never see 160 again. I'm feeling great. I am getting tons of compliments, yet I'm also telling myself that at some point those compliments will stop and I have to be motivated to do this for me and my health and not the compliments. Already thinking through strategies I'll need for maintenance. Been reading a great book "Made to Crave" which is helping me a ton on the emotional/spiritual side of my food issues and spending a lot of time journaling...it was good to start the physical process of the MRC eating plan first and see success, and now to deal with the issues that got me here in the first place. |
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