If it was only me shaving it not the sands of time, Ian.

I think on some guys stubble is very sexy; but it suits some men better than others though. My DH doesn't look good with it at all becuz he has a small, narrow face; and I have sensitive skin that gets scratched by beards. If you like one, then you MUST keep it tidy and clean; to me, there's nothing more gross than an unkept mustache, beard, or stubble.

MY favorite is nothing; after that, a tiny, thin mustache that you can just barely see like the one Errol Flynn used to have (well kept again, please but so sexy to me); then third, would be a well kept, light stubble. I agree that your wife definitely should get a say even if you find some unexpected benefits on occasion ... ;)

Plus if she hates it, you may pay some other consequences too, like no candoodle for you ... :lol:

I find stubble on men, especially dark haired men, very sexy. But I had no idea what "designer" stubble was and expecting something like this only more stubbly.

http://hungergamesdwtc.net/wp-conten...c567o1_500.jpg

But then I looked it up, and yes, definitely sexy.

I personally LOVE stubble and beards. My hubby has a full beard that he keeps trimmed and even to about 1 inch thick. I think it is so HOT. I agree that you would look good with some stubble but the wife/gf's opinion is always the final say. If she doesn't dig it, it's not gonna work.

First and foremost I want to say that you are doing an incredible job with your weight loss IanG! :bravo:

Secondly, back to the question at hand, I dislike beards longer than 1-2 mils because it hurts during a kiss! My partner cuts his once a week and by the end of the week his kisses are so sore! Therefore, I give a half yes lol

Thanks Rhiko!

From a guys point of view:

Facial hair is masculine and a sign of vitality in men. As long as it is well groomed, it is a great thing.

Do it for yourself. A lot of women here have set they like it, but deep down they all do. Including your wife.

Definitely do it, if that is your hearts desire.