mis - It's actually easier, I don't have to decide what we both eat, just me. He doesn't need to lose any weight anyway, so if he doesn't feel good on it I'm not going to try to change his mind.

As for the puter - we're giving DSS our old computer, but DH wanted to wipe the hard drive first. He was just having a hard time doing that. He's over there delivering it now. I don't mind when he goes over there, he always comes back much more grateful that he's with me instead of her. My only complaint is that Sunday is our only day off together, so I would have like to have done something other than clean. But clean I did, and now my house is happy!