I'm surprised no one answered this! (But then again, I just came across this thread today
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I'm self-conscious about my weight and how I carry it because for the longest time, I was in denial. I thought I was thinner than I actually was. Pictures proved to be a harsh reality check AND proof that just because you've stretched something beyond belief, doesn't mean it "fits" :/
So to answer your question: I won't wear a size until it's loose at the waist and hips aka not just "loose" when I suck it in.
Right now, I'm a size 12, (I can zip up a skirt without stretch or suck in) but it's
not loose enough for me to feel comfortable wearing that size. My 14s are more baggie than I'd like, but the inch differential from 14 to 12 seems to be more significant than it should be.
Also: Congratulations on meeting so many of your weight loss goals!!