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Exhale15 05-09-2012 03:08 PM

How are you succeeding ?
 
So many great, strong chicks succeeding here. I know everyone is different, but I am curious as to how you've eventually gotten to and maintained your success.

1. How do you approach exercise? Do you go along with standard guidelines/ recommendations as to #of sessions a week? Do you set goals? Do you journal? Do you catch-as-catch-can?

2. If you had to chose - for one month - to stay on plan with either your food or your exercise, (i.e. you would have to drop one for the month) which would you chose to stick with, and why?

Thanks :)

goldendoodle 05-09-2012 03:40 PM

As far as exercise I try to get 45 mins/day of cardio (running, Zumba or fitness hooping). I am planning to start incoroporating strength training in the near future as soon as I finish some physical therapy.

If I had to choose to not be on plan for one month, I would choose to stay on plan with food. I don't think my weight would change with one month of not exercising if I kept on plan with food. One month going crazy with food and I could be 10lbs up easily.

sunshauna 05-09-2012 04:20 PM

I don't exercise near enough.....that needs to change! :) I haven't journaled or counted calories, (although I'm generally aware of what I'm taking in, I don't log them). When I get close to goal, I may have to fanatically count calories....we'll see. All I did was cut out ALL junk food, and *minimize* fats: margarine and oils, dressings, cheese, etc. I'm eating plenty, it just doesn't have many calories. A potato, rice, or salad doesn't have many calories until we dump all the fat on. Doing things like getting non-fat dressing on the side and dipping my food in it, instead of pouring it on has helped. Last week, we went to the Spaghetti Factory and I love their butter and mizithra on the broccoli. I asked for it on the side and dipped it....probably took in 150 calories of butter and mizithra instead of 1000. If I had to choose, I'd stay on plan with food and give up exercise. Food is what makes you lose or gain.

ICUwishing 05-09-2012 05:00 PM

I've kept 20 pounds off for almost 3 years now; I know that's not nearly on the scale of some of the incredible losses here, but my situation might be similar to someone else's. My DH is a phenomenal cook, and I love almost everything edible. Mindlessly enjoying his cooking and mostly having seconds more often than not, put the weight on.

1. I haven't embraced regular exercise quite yet. You won't ever find me doing hours of cardio a week unless it's lap swimming. My goals are more about functional fitness and getting body parts to be able to do the things they should. My cardio will eventually look like Sears' PACE program, with a 20 minute set a few times a week that includes several 30-sec intervals of maximum intensity. Lifting weights doesn't interest me, but body-weight exercises do. I'd much rather be able to haul myself over a 6-foot wall than do a bench press. Just in case I need to pull myself into a tree to escape a predator, y'know? ;) I have a TRX system that I'm looking forward to playing with as soon as my shoulder completely heals. And I bought an Xbox Kinect, which has been screamingly fun and often quite sweaty. :D

2. I took it off with calorie counting, which taught me how to measure portion sizes. Paying attention to the quantity that I'm eating has been my key lifestyle change - my off-switch is not set right, so I can't count on my tummy telling me when I've had enough. Unless it's a steamed vegetable, I eat one serving that's "regulation sized". If it happens to be something that's very calorie-dense, I make an effort to eat smaller bites and to eat slower. I haven't done much in the way of exercise (working on that), but I know I cannot go back to my old way of eating, no matter how much exercise I programmed into my day.

ValRock 05-09-2012 05:18 PM

1. How do you approach exercise? Do you go along with standard guidelines/ recommendations as to #of sessions a week? Do you set goals? Do you journal? Do you catch-as-catch-can?

I go 3-4 days a week lately. My schedule changes every few weeks and I just roll with it. I don't set specific goals... I just know my time in the gym keeps me sane. I keep trying to lift heavier, and run faster :).

2. If you had to chose - for one month - to stay on plan with either your food or your exercise, (i.e. you would have to drop one for the month) which would you chose to stick with, and why?

As much as I LOVE my lifting time... I know it's not what keeps the weight off. If I didn't track my eating, I'd start packing lbs on fast. The calories keep the weight in check, the exercise makes me look good naked. I firmly believe that weight loss is about 80% kitchen, 20% gym.

freelancemomma 05-09-2012 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Exhale15 (Post 4327369)
1. How do you approach exercise? Do you go along with standard guidelines/ recommendations as to #of sessions a week? Do you set goals? Do you journal? Do you catch-as-catch-can?

2. If you had to chose - for one month - to stay on plan with either your food or your exercise, (i.e. you would have to drop one for the month) which would you chose to stick with, and why?

1. I exercise about 3 hours a week. In the colder months I go to fitness classes and in the warmer months I wog (alternating between jogging and walking). My philosophy is that the best exercise regimen for me is the one I can maintain, so I don't worry at all about recommendations, ratio of aerobic to strength, etc.

2. I would drop the exercise, because if I gave myself free rein with eating there's no end to the damage I could do. (Like many people here, I have the capacity to ingest vast quantities of food.) That said, my eating plan is not restrictive at all. As long as my calories average out to about 2,000 per day, anything goes, including all-you-can-eat pigouts.

F.

saef 05-09-2012 06:08 PM

Let's make it clear: My success rate is good, but not impeccable. I lost over 108 pounds and have kept all but about 10-15 pounds off since 2007.

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Originally Posted by Exhale15 (Post 4327369)
1. How do you approach exercise? Do you go along with standard guidelines/ recommendations as to #of sessions a week? Do you set goals? Do you journal? Do you catch-as-catch-can?

Compulsively, with an almost superstitious belief that working out every single day can stave off massive regain. (It won't and hasn't kept my weight from creeping up slightly, but truth and facts have never stopped me from enacting certain rituals meant to assuage my anxiety.) Also I've learned it helps me work off stress and elevates my mood slightly in the mornings. I do pay attention to some experts' recommendations, though not slavishly. I do not lift weights on consecutive days. I try to mix up my cardio. I don't run as much as I'd like because my toe and knee joints can't take it. I record it here but nowhere else. My only goal is doing something every day.

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2. If you had to chose - for one month - to stay on plan with either your food or your exercise, (i.e. you would have to drop one for the month) which would you chose to stick with, and why?
Much as I swear by exercise, I know it's not really keeping my weight down. I know it's mostly about intake. I learned when I had to salvage stuff from my apartment after the flood that I could maintain or lose weight without exercising as much as I do. Also, when I was ill with an inner-ear virus that left me mostly deaf in my left ear, I had balance issues & debilitating vertigo. I didn't exercise until my system adjusted. (Your eyes eventually learn to make up for the loss of inner ear balance function.) I gained but lost it so quickly, it was as if it had never happened. So it's food, really.

Exhale15 05-09-2012 07:05 PM

What great achievements - Thanks to All :hug: for your posts.

Food prep has been my downfall. Especially lately. I have this ongoing cycle of eating well but not exercising, then exercising but not eating well. Part of this is because most of the places I go to exercise are not near where I live and so there's travel time involved. I need to use my neighborhood more.

I think not eating well is more damaging than not exercising. Gotta focus on this one...I want to be successful like all of you. I want to get to my 'goal' :tantrum:

RedPanda 05-10-2012 04:31 AM

How do you approach exercise? Do you go along with standard guidelines/ recommendations as to #of sessions a week? Do you set goals? Do you journal? Do you catch-as-catch-can?

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Originally Posted by saef (Post 4327578)
Compulsively, with an almost superstitious belief that working out every single day can stave off massive regain.

Saef is reading my mind again! :cool:

I believe that, as well as helping me to maintain my weight loss, exercise helps to reset the hormones which regulate weight, as well as reduce anxiety and depression, which I came to realise long before I read about it here.

I exercise twice a day, with a mix of strength training (heavy lifting at the gym, kettlebell/bodyweight circuits, TRX/kettlebell circuits, TRX/sandbag circuits, strength/cardio circuits, or maybe some metabolic strength training) cardio (hiking, incline training, spinning, step aerobics, shadow boxing with weighted gloves, heavy bag workouts, MMA-inspired workouts, kickboxing, or sports drills), and other stuff such as yoga and Pilates.

I plan my workouts and keep a log, switching things around every six weeks.

If you had to chose - for one month - to stay on plan with either your food or your exercise, (i.e. you would have to drop one for the month) which would you chose to stick with, and why?

I'd stick to my food plan, but if I can't exercise I cut way back on calories. Since I lost weight, I've been through two major surgeries and a few injuries without regaining.

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Originally Posted by Exhale15 (Post 4327369)
I think not eating well is more damaging than not exercising.

Have to agree with this.

Exhale15 05-10-2012 08:17 AM

90 pound loss maintained is awesome!
How much time a day do you spend exercising RedPanda? Thanks for your post.

I'm going to have to incorporate more at-home exercise sessions, because I've come to enjoy exercise - finally!

krampus 05-10-2012 10:22 AM

1.) I try to get out and do something active most days. I tend to have 1-2 totally motionless days each week, which I'm never thrilled about. I go to the gym 2-3 times a week and lift twice, and I try to get out and run a few miles on the bike path when I have time and the weather's nice. Since it's spring now, I like hiking and going on long walks outside on the weekends.

2.) A month huh? If I choose exercise does this mean I am required to binge wildly all day every day for that month? By this point, that would not be pleasurable at all and I don't think I'd do it. I almost feel worse for skipping activity than overeating, and it would be terrible to start over getting in shape.

sontaikle 05-10-2012 10:34 AM

1) I always try to be active and exercise has been a big part of my life since I was 16. I go to the gym four or five times a week, and usually do something outside of the gym one day a week. So 5-6 days I am exercising and I like to give myself one rest day a week. I never really sit around on that rest day though, I go for a walk :) I LOVE weight training and I lift heavy twice a week, do bodyweight exercises once a week and use some lighter weights once or twice a week, depending on what goes on in my group fitness classes.

I like to do what I like when it comes to exercise. I set goals for myself and try to make sure things are challenging. My general rule with weight training is: if I'm not sore the next day (or the day after that) then I need to up the weight.

2) It's a tough choice but I would have to stick with my eating plan. I know that's what makes or breaks me. I was fat and fit for YEARS and it wasn't until I got my eating under control that I lost a substantial amount of weight.

k8yk 05-10-2012 11:18 AM

I have a deal with myself that I'll work out at least 4 times a week. I usually do 5 or 6. Mostly weight lifting.

I don't count calories or anything to maintain my weight, I just eat the way I learned to eat while I was losing weight. Small meals throughout the day, vegetarian, whole foods, lots of veggies and fruit. I don't really have a "plan" per se. This is just how I eat now. So I don't think I would be able to "take a month off", but I know if I did go back to eating pizza and chips, I'd regain fast. That's not an option. This was a lifestyle change. I have taken a month off from working out (moving) and my weight didn't change.

Exhale15 05-10-2012 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by krampus (Post 4328359)
...A month huh? If I choose exercise does this mean I am required to binge wildly all day every day for that month? By this point, that would not be pleasurable at all and I don't think I'd do it. I almost feel worse for skipping activity than overeating, and it would be terrible to start over getting in shape...

No, not binging, but not paying as close attention as usual. I guess the point of the question was to find out which of the two - food or movement - has more impact on weight :)

RedPanda 05-10-2012 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Exhale15 (Post 4328179)
90 pound loss maintained is awesome!
How much time a day do you spend exercising RedPanda? Thanks for your post.

Up to 2 hours a day, plus a longish hike on the weekend. It averages out to about 15.5 hours a week.

Just adding - I know I don't need to do that much exercise to maintain my weight loss, but I figure my routine gives me some leeway if I have to skip a session due to work pressures or sickness.

k8yk 05-10-2012 04:36 PM

Diet is absolutely more important than exercise for overall weight control.
But I think exercise is more important for physical and mental health. I also find that when I skip exercise, I am more likely to reach for food in stress, because exercise is a great relief valve for stress.
They go together. I think it has to be both, not either or.

RedPanda 05-10-2012 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by k8yk (Post 4328882)
Diet is absolutely more important than exercise for overall weight control.
But I think exercise is more important for physical and mental health. I also find that when I skip exercise, I am more likely to reach for food in stress, because exercise is a great relief valve for stress.
They go together. I think it has to be both, not either or.

Totally agree. :cool:

lin43 05-10-2012 08:14 PM

I exercise 1 to 2 hours a day, and I think that's one reason that I can eat a lot more than I thought I could and still maintain my weight.

Since you were more specific about what you meant by giving up good eating for a month, I almost want to say that I would rather do that than stop exercising (and this is from someone who previously eschewed exercise). I say that because as long as I don't pig out, I think I could probably intuitively stay within 3 to 5 lbs. of my current weight by just eating normally & exercising. Even though I do believe that eating is the most important in terms of weight loss or gain, I would be loathe to give up exercising because once I lose momentum with that, I think it would be really hard for me to get back into it.

caryesings 05-10-2012 08:32 PM

I hope this doesn't come across as cavalier (or tempting maintenance failure), but truly I don't follow a plan anymore. Over three years ago I just started incorporating changes in my life that I knew I would stick with.

With exercise for example, I just kept adding activities and/or increasing the time I did them. I tried a lot of things but never forced myself to do anything I didn't like. I ended up finding exercising 4-6 hours a week made me feel good without feeling "punished" so that's what I continue to do. It's just a habit now.

I counted calories while losing and found a level that I was comfortable eating and decided to see where that would land me weight wise. So while I still would love to lose 20 more lbs, I've been maintaining in @5 lb. range for 19 months since I stopped logging/counting calories. In the 16 months it took me to lose the 100 lbs, I truly ended up changing my diet to feel comfortable eating healthier foods in reasonable quantity. If the jeans get tight I cut out "the goodies" until they feel comfortable again but don't change my eating drastically.

Even during the active part of weight loss, I weighed in no more than once a month because standard for myself was that I was sticking to the new lifestyle NOT making adjustments just because I saw a certain number on the scale. I truly wanted to make a lifestyle change, as a lifetime of "dieting" hadn't gotten me where I wanted to be. And so far, its working. Wish I'd figured this out 20 years ago. but maybe I needed the patience that comes with age to do it this way.

evilwomaniamshe 05-11-2012 08:02 AM

I never had a huge loss like most peeps here, but I have been maintaining a 25lb loss for over 5 years now! :) My gain was from an injury and I sat idle being I couldn't do much.:( Basically feeling sorry for myself, poor me syndrome set in & excess food was my comfort plain and simple.....:dizzy:

I have always been an advid exerciser all my life & when I couldn't work out due to injury, I started to climb the walls! I played many sports in highschool and have always been very active. I continue to play in sport leagues now even at age 45! :)

Basically to lose the weight I ATE & EXERCISED for the body I wanted, not for the body I had! :D As my signature states diets make you look good in clothes, but exercise & weightlifting make you look good naked! :strong:

In summary, I continue to eat healthy 80% of the time & 20 % of the time not so much. I exercise for an hr EVERYDAY!

For me it is all about balance. I eat healthy with some unhealthy foods tossed into the mix for sanity sakes, which keeps me balanced both mind & soul & I exercise for fitness & strength! I can give a punch & certainly take a punch too if needed! :)

Exhale15 05-11-2012 02:31 PM

Another group of wonderful posts. Thank you!

Reading your responses has clarified for me the food vs. exercise thing. As much as I've 'talked' about exercise being good for this-and-that, I've always, deep down, looked at it as a way to drop weight, i.e., how many pounds will I lose if I do X. But today I dawned on me that it is about physical conditioning,,,balance, strength, coordination, etc. Somehow, that makes me want to exercise more, it takes the 'weight loss' pressure off. It's like 'if I exercise today I'll be more graceful, stronger and get good muscles' rather than 'I've got to get in this exercise 'cause i'm too fat'.

I think it's great that you've been able to maintain your weight loses! It shows that you've engrained in yourselves healthy habits that you could live with in the long-term.

thanks again :hug:

Megan1982 05-11-2012 03:24 PM

I read this post and meant to respond yesterday, but haven't had a minute until now. Like Saef I don't claim to be perfect. I began my journey at age 15 and 220 lbs. I got down to 140 seven years ago, and have regained some weight (up to 167 two years ago, been creeping back down since then). Still, I really have changed a lot about my adult lifestyle versus the teenager I was way back when.

I really enjoy exercise. I look at it as a form of therapy in addition to a way to burn calories. I try to follow a workout plan that varies with the seasons, but as I am a planner it is helpful to come up with some idea of what I'll be doing over the week. I must say I never had a problem with exercise, though I have to admit don't really care for running. I've gone through various phases where I ran a lot, including some 5Ks, weight lifted pretty intensely, right now I'm just going for balanced. I also try to incorporate more active things in my everyday life and my job includes a fair amount of activity. It's actually hard for me to sit on the couch and watch TV, and hard for me to sit at a desk for long periods. It's not that I feel guilty sitting down, I just have trouble doing it. (When I was a teenager I could sit and watch TV for hours and hours.)

Even though I love exercise, I would choose to stick to my eating plan for a month because that is the hardest part for me! Sometimes I feel like that is such a failure, but then I realize that I'm being hard on myself. I struggle with portion sizes and boredom eating, still, but I eat pretty healthily. I really enjoy my veggies, fruits, oatmeal etc. There are times when I realize how much my eating lifestyle is ingrained in me. Every year when I come home from a week of Christmas vacation and decadence with my family, I crave salad. My body is smart!

Glory87 05-11-2012 07:09 PM

I basically ignore exercise and eat well. I hate exercise and like healthy foods.

Exhale15 05-11-2012 07:41 PM

Megan, and Glory, thanks for posting. This is such great support for me. :cp:

I've set a mini-goal for myself for this coming week to eat CLEAN and get in exercise around that, but to not use exercise as an excuse to pick up take-out. I think mini-goals relating to reinforcing healthy habits is what I need now. And 'one thing at a time'.

Thank you, again :carrot:

Kery 05-12-2012 04:32 AM

1. How do you approach exercise? Do you go along with standard guidelines/ recommendations as to #of sessions a week? Do you set goals? Do you journal? Do you catch-as-catch-can?

I approach exercise in a "if I don't like it, I won't do it" manner. Meaning I go with the flow. I function in cycles in many, many aspects of my life, and it's the same here. So if I'm in a "I want to run" period, I run a lot. If I'm in a "let's walk a lot period", I walk a lot. The downside, of course, is that since I don't really stick to one specific activity in the long run, I don't become very good/trained in what I do. I probably couldn't run a real marathon, for instance. On the other hand, I feel I've gained a healthy approach to regular, daily life exercise, too, on top of having become more sporty, and it evens out in the end anyway.

2. If you had to chose - for one month - to stay on plan with either your food or your exercise, (i.e. you would have to drop one for the month) which would you chose to stick with, and why?
Stay on plan with food. As long as I'm not going overboard with that, I can maintain easily enough. But if I were to let it go to the dogs, I'd have to do 10 hours of exercise/day to counteract the weight gain that would necessarily ensue.

Precious Little 05-12-2012 05:10 AM

1. How do you approach exercise? Do you go along with standard guidelines/ recommendations as to #of sessions a week? Do you set goals? Do you journal? Do you catch-as-catch-can?

I am fairly firm on the exercise thing - I don't like to leave any more than 3 days between workouts. I don't have a set schedule at the moment - it's pretty much based on how I'm feeling - if I'm sore or overly tired then I'll make slight adjustments to the kind of workouts I do. I like to do at least 2 cardio workouts a week, and one strength/resistance workout per week. Apart from that I just roll with it. I probably don't decide what workout I'm going to do until a couple hours prior. I don't belong to a gym, all my workouts are either on DVDs, the pilates reformer, or running/walking outside.

2. If you had to chose - for one month - to stay on plan with either your food or your exercise, (i.e. you would have to drop one for the month) which would you chose to stick with, and why?

If I had to choose, it would probably be to stay on plan with my food. It would be much easier for me nowadays as I've started calorie counting. If I'd been asked the same question a year ago I'd probably have said exercise instead, because I had no idea what my requirements/intakes were.

pageta 05-12-2012 10:35 AM

1. How do you approach exercise? Do you go along with standard guidelines/ recommendations as to #of sessions a week? Do you set goals? Do you journal? Do you catch-as-catch-can?


During the warm months last year (May-October) I walked 4 miles five days a week, walked 6 miles one day on the weekend and rode my bike 20+ miles one day on the weekend. I do better when I exercise every day.

During the cold months I tried yoga and Couch-to-5K but exercised very little. My original plan was to do P90X during the cold months, but that did not work out at all. I pretty much floundered when it came to exercise last winter and didn't get much done.

Now that the warmer months are back, I have resumed walking. I want to sub weight lifting for walking 3 days a week, though. I'm not sure how that will work out as walking is really mentally refreshing to me, and I fear I won't get the same mental down-time from weight-lifting as I do from walking. We'll see.

2. If you had to chose - for one month - to stay on plan with either your food or your exercise, (i.e. you would have to drop one for the month) which would you chose to stick with, and why?

I would choose exercise because my eating habits are much better without much effort on my part when I exercise. I really struggle with food if I'm not exercising. It's like I eat to fuel my active plans, and I like challenging myself to hike and ride my bike further, etc. Last fall (and last weekend) I did a half-marathon. I like pushing myself physically, and my eating kind of takes care of itself when I am. If I exercise, I deal with stress better, and I am one who eats if I don't have another way to deal with stress.

But I'm still learning so in six months I might answer differently. I began losing 50 pounds two years ago and have kept at least 30 of them off.

Kendrab1223 05-13-2012 03:57 PM

I maintained an 80 pound weight loss for around 9-10 months before deciding to lose some more weight...

For me, exercise is important. It makes me happy, and makes me feel really good about myself. I exercise a minimum of 6 days a week (if 7 then that extra day is just a walk) and usually 2x per day. I do not like paying for or going to the gym so all of my exercise is outside or home DVDs. Right now I walk about 3 miles a day and am doing insanity. Once I'm done insanity I'll be starting p90x.

If I had to pick between giving up paying attention to food or exercise for a month- bye bye food. When I maintained my weight for almost a year, some of my food habits started coming back (a few extra Oreos, pizza twice a week, etc) but I always stayed within 3 pounds of my goal weight. I exercised daily and it just works for me I guess. Plus, I simply just don't like NOT exercising daily.

When I decided to lose some more weight, all I've changed is instead of doing Jillian videos, I started insanity (I start week 5 tomorrow) and started the fast 5 way of eating. I was never a breakfast person and despite it being "crucial" for losing weight, I never ate breakfast while losing any of my weight. I still don't watch what I eat, just when I eat I guess.

Exhale15 05-19-2012 01:42 PM

Hi guys,
thank you for posting & keep up the great work :)


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