Well ok check this out.........before they came one of my girlfriend neighbors and I were outside chit chatting. She is single......heheheheh she wants to go out with my DB too! So a *plan* is in progress! LOL!
Anyway so they arrived and things weren't too bad, the two of them seemed happy together, she did tell me that the other night when we went to dinner, she had to drive a friend of hers to the hospital cause she had a baby. So who knows any way her boys are alittle wild but she REALLY stuck to them and made sure they did things they should and watched them for things they shouldn't. So we all got dressed and went up to the pool for awhile, my DB and her two boys and steven and keilyn got into the pool and so it just left me and Shannon sitting at the table and so this was my time to take adavantage of.................so I told her some girlfriends and I are wanting to go uptown to have a few drinks and since she was a bartender or so she clamed, I asked her where she worked. She couldn't answer me, she kept stumbling and got really flustered and didn't know what to say..........then she says oh I bartend at a few strip clubs up town........ well atleast she told me 1/2 the truth, she does indeed work in a strip club just not as a bartender.... then I started explaining my *story* and then she chimed right on in about her story and her boys..........well fast forward alittle she was very nice to my DB, not mean and rude the way everyone else said she was and I am sure my brother probably warned her that I am the person to watch out because I have the mouth and I won't keep quit if there is something I don't like...........things went good, after the pool we went back to my house and got things ready to cook out. She sat on one of my bar stools and we chit chatted. She never once asked if she could help with something at all. My brother did, but then again he was outside entertaining her boys while she sat inside. A few minutes later she made a phone call and then went and talked to my DB and he came in and asked if it was ok if her mother came over to eat too and of course I wasn't going to say no.......so a alittle later I was outside putting food on the grill and her mom arrives and my DB introduces her to everyone and then it was like night and day...........Shannon's attitude changed..........her mother had to TELL her to check on those boys, her mother was almost like their mother, she did everything for them, while Shannon sat on the couch and read a magazine. Her attitude towards my DB seemed to change too, Shannon didn't hardly talk much to us once her mom came, but her mom was really friendly but it was almost like Shannon was sitting back and letting her mom do everything she should be doing. I dont' know..........that kinda bothered me. So fast forward, my mom came shortly after Shannons' mom arrived and I dont' think Shannon hardly even spoke to my mom but my mom and her mom talked but I dont know, Shannon changed when her mom came around..........she turned rude. Anyways we ate dinner and I went outside with Keilyn and some of the other little girls from next door and they played in Keilyn's little pool so when I came in Shannon was cleaning my kitchen
and so I appreciated that, wasn't expecting it but that was nice. Everyone sooned lefted after that and the boys ended up going home with Shannon's mom and I am kinda thinking, that Shannon's mom may keep them boy ALOT and I even suspect she may have custody of them, not sure why I think that, just a feeling I have.
It went good until her mom came so I am not sure what all that is about. Shannon did tell me that her boys call my brother *dad* which IMO isnt' good cause they will be the one to get hurt.
We will see..........
ladyinweighting , 07-18-2005 08:46 AM
