I have been a member since January and I still dont have a buddy. I don't think you need one as long as you have determination. Although it is good to have someone to talk to about progress and options. Good luck to all newbies.

Best wishes to the newbies too and those who want to find a "buddy." Personally I enjoy floating through the threads and making lots of buddies rather than finding one in particular. But hope those who are looking for them find them soon.

Don't feel like you HAVE to have a buddy to do this! Just jump in and give help when you think you can and ask for it when you need it--everyone jumps in and helps! I've had my share of obsticals and have gotten a lot of advice and help when I needed it.
If you really need a buddy, you can always attempt a private message to someone who seems to be in the same boat as you are. That doesn't mean they will be your buddy, but it is worth a try.