New here and in need of a buddy

  • Hi all-

    My name is Kellianne and I am looking for a buddy. A little bit about me...
    I am 25 (26 in about 3 weeks), I was always pudgy as a child and teen, then when I turned 17 I lost some weight and was a good size for my frame. Over the past 3 years I have gained weight and am now bigger then I ever was even as a teen. My current weight is 155 and I am 5'1", but I have a small build. I have tried so much and been unsuccesful but now that I have gained these last 5 pounds in the past month I cannot fit into any of my pants anymore and I need to get serious. I feel tired and out of shape. I joined a gym and plan to seriously start working out as well as eating better too.

    My boyfriend is wonderful and tells me he loves me just the way I am, but unfortunately I don't!! Sometimes I almost wish he was a "bad" boyfriend and told me I was chubby then I might have some motivation. I guess the fact that I haven't even attempted to buy new clothes in so long because I can't bear the size they would be, and the fact that I usually wear scrubs to work and can only wear jogging pants otherwise is now my motivation: )

    Currently I am 155 and I hope to get back down to at least 115. If anybody would like to be a buddy let me know : )

    Thanks!
  • Hi Kellianne...boy do I know what it's like to have a "supportive" boyfriend always telling me oh you look fine, let's get some ice cream! grrr if he saw things the way I do it would be much better. I am 22 years old and have been chubby for a long time and just finally nearing my goal. If you are looking for an email buddy to talk to when you're struggling and help you get to where you are happy with your size send me an email or PM.
  • Hey Kellianne,
    I am 5'2" and weigh 180.I was 203!I have fought hard this year to get it off and keep it off forever.I work out at Curves and follow the South Beach diet.I started walking too and today I walked 3 miles.I am alot better at drinking water now too.You can do it too if I can.I have dieted all my life.I don't remember being smaller than a 14.I am a 16/18 now and my goal is a size 12 at 137 lbs.You can write back anytime.