Introduction

  • I'm a 27-year old woman trying to get down from 195 to 145. It's been hard so far! I have been overweight for 5 or 6 years and especially heavy the last 4 years. As a 12-year old, I was anorexic and to help me gain weight, my parents bought me all my favorite high cal, high fat foods. It was great! but I soon developed a taste for fatty, high sugar foods. That's why I call myself sweetie1 as my favorite treats are sweets! (especially mini Reese's peanut butter cups and Dreyer's mint chocolate chip ice cream)!

    I just returned home from living in France for 4 years, and in March of this year, I consulted with a nutritionist doctor who put me on a diet that was pretty easy to follow; in fact, I lost 20 lbs! But, I've put it back on since and have just started to get back on track (Wednesday, 9/8, to be exact). So far, it has not been easy and I think about food way more than I wish I did. Have joined a gym and hope this will help, but losing all this weight is still a daunting task. I would love to be slim and healthy; I know my weight affects a lot of aspects in my life; I've been single forever and there's so many times that I'll see a gorgeous guy and think IF ONLY I weighed 50 lbs less; I'd go talk to him in a heartbeat!

    I'm hoping to find people with similar goals to share progress, tips and experiences with. Reds2004, your story touched me a lot as I know how hard it is to take that first step, how lonely one can feel, and how Friday nights are often filled with food and not anything else. Hope that all of you will keep up your hard work and feel free to contact me anytime you need a boost! Hope you'll be able to give me one from time to time, too!
  • Hi there, I'm in need of a buddy too.. I'm 25 and looking to lose 50-60 pounds. I've been trying and everytime i get going.. i lose track after a month or so. I can completely relate to the high calorie cravings... fast food and chocolate are my two biggest enemies. my email is [email protected] if you want to buddy up!
    Good luck!!
    Steph
    SW 263
    CW 245
    GW 180
  • Hey sweetie and Athena!
    I am in a similar situation. I am 29 and want to get down at least 50 pounds. My current goal is to lose 30 punds by my 30th bday . I have found the 20-Something Group post here very inspiring! I would invite you both to join us there. We check in about out exercise and our weekly weigh-ins to help keep us on track. I know how hard it can be, but have found my fellow 20-Somethings to be incredibly encouraging.
    I also have gotten into tracking my calorie intake and exercise on www.fitday.com. It has really helped me keep track and really think before I grab something bad to snack on.
    Good luck to both of you!
    LSB
  • Hi sweetie.
    We're similar. I'm 188 last time I checked and I want to be about 150.
    Been saying for years I will loss weight but I just keep gaining.
    I'm looking for a buddy I can keep in touch with daily. Hope to hear from
    you.
    ccminime.
  • sweetie1 - I would encourage you to go up and talk to a guy anyways!!! read this link about a girl who had a similar story with that and is now about to go on her second date: (hope you don't mind, Annie-Rose)

    http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/showthread.php?t=46948