Hi, and welcome to 3FC!
We have a lot of married couples here, and it seems that all husbands react differently to their wives' weight. I can understand where something so personal can be an issue. You'll want to feel completely comfortable with him, and it's important to feel good about yourself first. Please feel free to jump into any of our threads and find a diet plan that fits your lifestyle. There are a lot of people here to support you through it, and we look forward to having you as a part of our group